Hey guys, Haven't been on the site in a while but thought I'd post about this due to the incredible advice and support people have given me in the past. So basically I asked out this girl I knew. She said yes and the date was great, very few silences and the conversation just flowed. I later met her at a night club that same day, she was quite drunk and so I looked after her, we also kissed as well near the end before she left with her friends. She thanked me for looking after her too. I then asked her the next day at a student bar if she wanted to meet up for a coffee (we were both with our friends at the bar but had a brief conversation together). The next day we met at starbucks and this was also a great date, and before we both parted ways at the end of the date she kissed me on the lips and said that she had fun. This was completely sober by the way, this wasn't a drunk kiss and she initiated it. I asked her if she wanted to meet up during the spring vacation and she said yes. But just a few days later, she texted me saying that although she "enjoyed trying this out", she said she wasn't keen on the whole dating thing to continue. I replied saying that I respect her decision etc. But I just don't get why she'd kiss me, agree to go on a third date and then text me that!? I honestly don't know what I did wrong, I always payed for her drinks, I asked her questions about herself, she also asked me questions too and the conversations always flowed nicely. She would also text me asking where I was in the club, warning me about the queue at the student bar and asking how far away I was. My friends were also certain she liked me. This has also taken a hit on my confidence as I haven't been on a date in nearly 3 years and now when I get so close it just disappears in an instant. I was 99% certain that after a couple more dates we would be in a relationship. Your opinions on this are appreciated, thanks for taking the time to read!