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Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Deleted Account, Nov 14, 2017.

  1. Nov 14, 2017 #1
    Deleted Account

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    So there is this girl in my class and I like her. Wish we both could be in a relationship. I did notice her check me out some times. She did give some eye contact a lot many times...And I would be the one breaking it first...Maybe I did not know how to react. I tried messaging her on WhatsApp , she was bit slow to reply. Nowadays she tries to avoid me and I find she does it coyly. She turns around when she sees me , but I notice a smile also. I am confused.. Earlier she did look straight in my eyes, I would be scared. Now when I try to get her attention, she shyly ignores me. What should I do???
     
    Deleted Account, Nov 14, 2017
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  2. Nov 14, 2017 #2
    SolitaryScribe

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    When we like someone we often see things through a skewed lens where we project our feelings on to that other person. Now I'm not saying that she doesn't like you, all I'm saying is you need to be a bit careful of how you're reading the situation. Her taking time to text you, to me is an indication that she's not interest. I could be wrong... see if you're able to get her to start talking in a comfortable way to you, and have conversations with her in real life. That's the best way t gage how someone actually feels.
     
    SolitaryScribe, Nov 14, 2017
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  3. Nov 14, 2017 #3
    Hitto

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    I would be direct with her and try to talk to her and read her body language as she talking to you
     
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  4. Dec 1, 2017 #4
    The Wrestler

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    When you go talk to her, try to ask more "what" and opinion questions than yes/no and single-word-answer questions.
     
    The Wrestler, Dec 1, 2017
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