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Continuing after initial success

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by A888, Dec 1, 2017.

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    Hi Guys, so I’m a new member to the forum but about 6 months ago my girlfriend approached me about my inability to finish during any sexual act and we came upon the conclusion that it was due to my death grip masterbation. After a month or so of abstaining from PMO due to help on this forum, I was able to O during intercourse but it still took about 45 minutes with the occasionally quickie lasting 15 minutes or so, but this is rare.

    The reason why I am here is that sex is proving to be an issue for us in our relationship and kind of a large road block for us both. The length of our intercourse is still too long (45mins +) and to make matters worse, I am rather large below the belt and this can prove painful for her at times. This in turn led us toward having sex less and less and reducing our communication about the issue.

    In an attempt to lower the time it takes me to O during intercourse, I feel as though practicing shorter sex may be an option. Not trying to use a timer but just ending sex after roughly 15 minutes or fatigue I feel as though my body would be forced to react and as a result, lean to O normally in 15 minutes or less.

    Do any of you guys agree with this theory? Or believe that there is another solution to this still long sex issue?

    Thanks for your time
     
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