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Control horniness

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by Fryerstarter, Mar 19, 2023.

  1. Fryerstarter

    Fryerstarter New Fapstronaut

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    Hello,

    I've been on a nofap journey for some time now, but recently I've been on a 4 months streak as I decided to take the opportunity for this new year to completely cut off pmo in order to be in a better mental state - and waste less time -, for my preparation of buisness schools contests i'm passing from next may until july. However i've been much more horny as days went on and have been really tempted to approach girls, whether at my college or at the library i'm studying in (i've done a fair amount of cold approach in the past so it is pretty tempting for me). But at the same time having a girl in my life right now would be counter productive and too time and thought-consuming, i'm trying to go to the gym twice a week to keep my testoterone levels in check but sometimes thoughts of trying to approach girls are pretty distracting.
    I've recently been thinking about resuming masturbation with no porn in an acceptable frequency (like once every two weeks or so) to prevent that from happening, but really don't want to. I'm here to ask for experienced people about controlling urges to get some tips on how to keep my sexual desires in check for a certain point of time. Thanks in advance
     
  2. The worst is over

    The worst is over Fapstronaut

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    Sounds like you already have the answers to your questions. If a girl in your life would be counter-productive, then there would be no point in approaching one would there? Keep to yourself for now, and think of it as a necessary sacrifice for the time being. Eventually when you get to where you want to be, you can involve yourself with women. I would definitely not recommend masturbating as a solution, as it is far from one.
     

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