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Controlling yourself in your dreams

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Muphy, Feb 15, 2019.

  1. Muphy

    Muphy Fapstronaut

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    I didn't know it was possible.
    I just woke up and I knew I had a lucid and sexy dream and I knew that in the dream as well that its not real and I didnt do it. I just controlled myself. And I am telling you it was hard as hell but now I am thinking it was no big deal. I am in third week of my no PMO. And it feels great, I already feel the energy in me and dont want to ruin it.

    It is only possible if you are stronger during the day time. I posted for help a few days back that I am under no PMO plan but still I read some intimate stuff on quora and otheres and I was advised not to do that and I stopped from that onwards. And I think that dedication helps you to committing the same thing in your dreams. You take your task to your sub-conscious level. Tell yourself that you can do it. Dont pressurize yourself and let it go the usual way.


    you can have control over your dreams to. Not all, but the ones where you can understand that its not real and I can stop this.
     
  2. 4DCreator

    4DCreator Fapstronaut

    You can't have control over your dreams ever (talking about normal dreams in the night) They are coming from your subconscious mind and also you can not have control over that part of your brain. You are only aware of what is shown to you in your conscious mind. The experience that you believe that you were able to control your dream is just your missing knowledge on the subject.

    Sometimes you can experience that you are following the same goal in the dream as in reality so it looks like you controlling your dream. Trust me if your brain will decide to clean the pipes you will load into your bed without being able to do anything about it.
     
  3. Muphy

    Muphy Fapstronaut

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    How dreams are made my brain... They are subconscious thoughts.. of all the things we see, we want , we are attracted to.
    You can never think of something you have never seen or heard of. Brain can't create memories.. it can just mix some memories based on experience and things it know.

    What I think is when you take something to the subconscious level, brain will respond.. if you have decided that you are not going to eat sugar.. and you are following that even with temptations.. so in the dream there will be same kind of situation and you are not going to go for it.

    Just as an example.. during childhood.. we all used to pee in our beds.. but most of the people have experienced that when they were about to piss .. then they are looking themselves in the dreams pissing..
    But you have created a rule that you don't have to piss.. so your brain gives y signal from subconscious side to the concious side.. now it's upto the person to react on that signal.. but I am sure that everybody gets that signal..
    And you have made that signal reaction so strong that brain doesn't have to create a dream to indicate that you have to pee when you are sleeping... You just wake up.. over time it has made some rules through learning..

    I believe that same can be done for wet dreams.. I think that you can stop the wet dream the moment it starts.. and sometimes we do get to know that this is a dream but we chose to go along with it.
     
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  4. i cant do shit while asleep. my prefortnal cortex is very weak since brith and i suffer from sex dreams and lakc of sleep awareness.
     
  5. Muphy

    Muphy Fapstronaut

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    Same here..

    For that you have stop yourself from pmo while you are awake first. If youll spend some days controlling yourself from porn and masturbation.. then only you'll be able to understand that in dreams..
     
  6. Muphy

    Muphy Fapstronaut

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    But from sometime, I have controlled myself multiple number of times and for long durations.. and somehow now I am able to understand the same in dreams
     

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