Core Values

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  1. Batty Belfry

    Batty Belfry Fapstronaut

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    Motivation finds itself hidden away in you, waiting and ready for the catalyst of aspiration to turn itself into inspiration.

    Sometimes someone is not around, but there is always a someone that is you. Whoever you are, find yourself and know who you are.

    When you have been alone with yourself, and for so long, the silence becomes company. You are able to hear your inner voice and enjoy your inner space and take it with you, everywhere you go.

    What I have done is established core values, ideals that I put into practice that serve as a reminder of who I am and who I need to be. I consider these core values answers to the big series of "Why" in my life.

    Validation, authenticity, love, originality, and routine. I define them as follows:

    Validation
    I am living proof that life in me and through me will carry purpose without the approval of others; unless it should make them better to have been inspired or advisory as my witness.

    How I approach my happenings and callings will be discerned by my character and by those who know my character. I choose myself not over another, but in the hope that I can become selfless.

    To the point of precipitation, may I cast rains of my good fortunes, whether it be a downour or a drop, so that it may be absorbed again and be shed once more for the people with and without clouds over their heads.

    Knowing the backs of my hands as well as the bottoms of my feet is my journey. Moving forward while standing still is my destination. Validation begins and ends always with the self.

    Authenticity
    The true self presents itself through concrete changes in that my aims are not self-defeating. Self-discovery and self-awareness are the pours on the skin of authenticity. Being born anew is a constant exercise of the soul imbedded in the words and acts closely woven and to be worn as a diligent wardrobe.

    I will not only dress the part but will become the part I was made for. However, like a wardrobe, authenticity is not without divergence. There are many accessories that on the surface seem disingenuous and gaudy to the beholder, but as the wearer, it is a statement more than fashion only I can wear. Authenticity is the magician without his magic; the trick is to tell and to live the truth.

    Love
    The matters of the heart think with a self-respecting emotional intelligence. It does not project selfish indulgence or pump empty promises that can only lead to bad blood.

    True love is a love of the self which translates to a common love for others. I hold a caring disposition in fear that no one cares at all and in strength that I still care despite being my own or part of the minority.

    It is a dangerous thing not to care, for there is no love where there is no care. The true exception revolves around self-love, where care must be placed on not only the little things but on the larger than life concerns set out for myself. Loving myself will find love in new places and faces who double the love to be had.

    Originality
    Inspiration and aspiration, invention and reinvention, are distinct equals in the case of creation. As a creator, I will not rely on derivative platitudes or cluttering cliches as adequate expressions or explanations.

    Rather, the moments where I find lacking will force my unconscious feelings to become conscious thoughts and words for memories in the making. My ideas will be my own while accepting their close inspirations and far aspirations.

    To be original, I must practice while not succumbing to perfection and focus on fulfilling my good intentions and turn them into good actions.

    Routine
    I will not have my hands be made idle. My work will become my play and when need be I will find the necessary separation of the two. I will shape a world of stagnation into one of dedication.

    Time will not be determined by the clock's hands but by the willingness of mine. Seconds or a century, my goals will not bend unlike my mode of operation. How I reach my successes wanes in the shadow of my reach still being done.

    I have a diligent and flexible work ethic that does not fall into mundanity, but rises through creativity. I will meet every day with sights on the next day so that I may say the days before me meant well and the days ahead of me mean better.

    On my last day, if I should have the company of one, it will have meant my trials and errors amounted to the continuous power of a hopeful routine.

    What are your core values? How would you define them?
     
  2. properWood

    properWood Fapstronaut

    Interesting topic. I have two:

    Integrity - (Radical) honesty and strong moral principles
    Prudence - Take decisions by weighing the positive and negative on the long and short term (Epicureanism)

    Highly recommend two books: "How will you measure your life", by Clay Christensen and "Principles" by Ray Dalio.
     
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