Couldn't get hard, even with ED drugs

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Gavalar09, Jan 9, 2020.

  1. Gavalar09

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    So I've had a few long reboots but my current is 8 day.
    I'd been having sex easily and multiple time on cailis 5mg.
    This is is early as last month.
    Last night I go round a girls house and I could not get hard at all!
    First time ever I had no libido, not even a semi. It took me 20 minutes to get hard!
    What gives?
     
  2. Nuallann

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    All guys have been through something like this if they've had sex enough times, we're not sex machines, and the stereotype that men always want it is nonsense, we just typically want it more often than women, and go after them when we do, giving the cultural idea that we're all just sex starved dogs,lol. We go through our own hormonal ups, and downs just as women do, just differently. You may have not eaten enough the day before, and your body wasn't able to make enough testosterone that night of sleep. Or you didn't get enough sleep to make the testosterone, or both lack of calories/nutrition, and sleep. Maybe you were stressed from something, and had cortisol levels at the time, blocking sex drive. You may have been up too long? Our T levels drop to really low if we've been awake too long as natural guys not on any drugs.

    A lot of things can prevent a guy from being turned on, I wouldn't worry too much about one time, at all. Eat enough calories, get 8-9 hours of sleep a night etc.
     
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  3. Gavalar09

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    Okay, I definitely could do with more sleep and rest and have been stressed out more lately so that might explain it.
    I just pegged it to the relapse and too much sex.
     
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  4. Younameit

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    are you still watching porn?if not how long have you been away from it
     
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  5. Gavalar09

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    Not watching porn now. Been away again for 11 days now. Prior to that I got streak of one year, and then last year was 3 months and 2 months.
     
  6. Younameit

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    you didn't binge then
     
  7. Gavalar09

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    No binge, I wasn't PMOing at all, PMOd once and all back to square one.
     
  8. Alex__13

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    How many orgasms have you had in the last month?
     
  9. Gavalar09

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    In the last month? I'd say probably 15 all through sex.
    Sometimes two, three in one night and then a few days break.
    Never struggled to get it up but again, that with the use of 5mg of cailis
     
  10. Alex__13

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    Read this is my opinion about ed, if you want to listen to me if not.
    Yes in my opinion it is the only way ... I have been ed for 4 years. I am in a relationship and there is no improvement, I just eliminated masturbation and porn. I got to be 100% sure that porn is not the cause of ed orgasm is the key.
    Porn is just the reason for exces masturbation and the huge number of orgasms that naturally would not occur and desensibilized yor brain.
    Every time you orgasmed .. regardless sex or masturbation with or without the help of porn, your sexual energy decreases. Read hundreds of threads on this site about how many after months of rebooting have regained their sexual powers and after just a few orgasms ....flatline again with ed..
    Believe me ... I spoke a tantra teacher ... she helped hundreds of men with ed problems ... she said the same thing ... she doesn't even know why something in the brain probably happens during orgasm that pure and simply blocks the connection between the brain and the dick. This is also the reason for the lack of morning wood, and the lack of spontaneous erections ... the lack of libido ... the libido happens as a result of the spontaneous reactions of your dick respons of yor brain spontaneus stimuls. Let no one tell me that the whole day is thinking of porn ... And dick is dead without senses without life in the majority of cases of pied.
    The only chance is without porn (most often the reason for masturbation) without masturbation (after masturbation follows the orgasm) and without orgasm a period I say minim 6 months, after which you can have max orgasms 1 per week. After 1-2 years you can even more but with great care ... read carefully the articles on the site and you will see many cases when after several orgasms have arrived with ed again.

    Believe me is the only chance ... if you do not have a girlfriend you are lucky ... it can not help you with anything ... the feelings and erections come back with the restoration of the connection between your dick and your brain.
     
  11. Gavalar09

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    But that's crazy, what the point of healing ED if your just gonna flatline again once you think you've healed?
    I can't just go into mini flatlines after everytime I orgasm.

    What am I meant to do? Just be celibate the rest of my life?
     
  12. Younameit

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    raise your sexual energy levels, akin to filling up a container with water till it is full
     
  13. Younameit

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    were you away from porn or have you been watching it recently?
     
  14. Alex__13

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    The only thing you can do is limit the number of orgasms ... and take great care with ed drugs ... it gives you the power you actually don t have.
    What other explanation do you give to those that happened? ...Did you just have sex without pmo?
     
  15. Younameit

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    Sex with PMO? what?
    once your sexual energy levels are high and your "energy containers" are full you won't need ED drugs, you've never needed them before you were addicted to PMO and you had 100% erections, so even taking these drugs is self sabotage, you might use them for a short period but you don't want do rely on them
     
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  16. Gavalar09

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    I can't rely on them now anyway.
    My libido is still dead from sex last week, not had a meaningful erection since my last orgasm.

    I feel very tired and no motivation at all.
    Im also stressed and quite low but that's down to ED and me losing my hsir.
     
  17. Gavalar09

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    So I can't have sex at all? Stay off all orgasms?
     
  18. Gavalar09

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    Magnetism?
    I'm confused?
     
  19. Gavalar09

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    Yes, sex no pmo.
    Only been orgasming to Sex, which has been probably 20 times in a month.
    PMOd once during this period.

    How does one relapse set me back this much?
     
  20. Younameit

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    once your sexual energy levels are restored and full again, you can have as many sex as you want
     
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