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Couldn't get hard, even with ED drugs

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Gavalar09, Jan 9, 2020.

  1. Younameit

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    my bad, I should've posted this in another thread lol
     
  2. Gavalar09

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    How will I know when that is?
     
  3. You had 20 orgasms in a month, when your sexual energy is very low. You could probably have a maximum of 4 ,each a week 1. You did nothing but exhaust all your energy and you were left without. Read carefully what I wrote ... orgasm reduces sexual energy whether it's sex, masturbation or pmo.You must understand this if you remain impotent all your life ... sorry
     
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  4. Gavalar09

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    So when will I have my sexual energy back? Its already been 20 days
     
  5. Younameit

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    Bro.. I think if we never watched porn to begin with we wouldn't be facing these problems
     
  6. Gavalar09

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    But unfortunately we did.
    How we're we to know this would happen?
     
  7. Younameit

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    yeah bro it's unfortunate
    I think this "having sex just once a week" is only valid because we are recovering, we don't know how much damage was made but if it wasn't for porn we would all be 100% sexually healthy and we would be able to fuck 3 times a day everyday without entering a flatline and withou having to wait 2 weeks because of this unbalanced refractory period
     
  8. Younameit

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    there's no doubt in my mind that porn is beyond malign
     
  9. Gavalar09

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    Exactly and there isn't a proper recovery.
    It doesn't work. I haven't had a real erection in 20 days which just isn't normal. I've not even had a sexual thought. I'm completely asexual at this point. I should be thinking 'she's beautiful' but nothing.
    This is why I think the damage is permanent.
     
  10. Younameit

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    it's not thinking, it's feeling as well, I also think so and so woman is pretty but there's no drive inside me
    and this is a fucking catastrophe, I don't know what to do anymore, I think I'll have to turn to drugs to function on a daily basis, problem is, I've tried so many things
    it's a catastrophe because not having libido destroys all areas of one's life, it's fucking insane
     
  11. Younameit

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    Bro.. I think we need to jumpstart our libido somehow, maybe having orgasms on purpose even if just MO, like every 3 days, what do you think
     
  12. MikeSilva

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    Listen, nothing to worry about. I am day 205 now of nofap, no porn no mastrubation, and I tell you my experience, there is NOTHING to worry about.

    I had PIED so could not get hard and I told my gf and I said I started nofap. After 1 month I had a bit of a boner. We fooled around and I came. After this orgasm BOEM flatline....

    could not get hard for 3 weeks. Then little erection, got hard and had sex and came! Then hard again at the same night and came twice! BOEM FLATLINE 3 weeks no libido no erection.

    After 3 weeks got hard again amd had sex, BOEM flatline 2 weeks! Got hard after two weeks and BOEM flatline 1 week. Got hard again after 1 week! Little flatline of 3-4 days. Then had sex and came! No flatline! Day after came again and still no flatline.

    Just be patient! Allow your body to heal. The flatline will come and go! Welcome to the rollercoaster but they will stop!

    DO NOT USE ERECTION PILLS!!! Never!!
    You should not run on a broken leg, you should not fuck with a broken dick
    You only make it worse, you make yourself dependent and right now they are working but believe me, the effect will reduce and then you will need a higher dose
     
  13. Gavalar09

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    They didn't work for me last time anyway so ED drugs are out the question
     
  14. Gavalar09

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    Also, whats a BOEM flatline?
     
  15. MikeSilva

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    Haha
    It means I got in a flatline out of the blue and my libido disappeared in a second.
     
  16. Gavalar09

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    Yeah, exactly the same here then
     
  17. Anonymous86

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    Did you flatline after an orgasm to porn?
     
  18. MikeSilva

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    No man, nofap means no porn and no mastrubation... so after sex with gf I hitted flatlines but these decreased to a minimum. Almost non-existent. I think I am going towards normal refractory periods like every man has.

    Sometimes when I have sex I feel a bit low energized for a day or two but I think this is normal. But the flatlines that lasted 3 weeks to a month have gone away so just keep going guys.

    One piece of advise: when you hit a flatline and you feel that you are unable to get an erection, then do not try to get an erection, because it won't work and you get frustrated or it will work but the experience is more a chore than an enjoyment. When you cannot have an erection just let go and explain to your gf what truly is going on. There are many other things you can do to please her without using your dick. so wait it out, when you feel you are ready to have sex again, then go for it but listen to your body.

    Do not use porn do not touch your dick, let your body heal, we damaged ourselves over the years so it takes time to heal. One day at a time.
     
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