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Couldn't get hard for sex

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by onlyhere41reason, Sep 4, 2020.

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  1. onlyhere41reason

    onlyhere41reason Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys! I'm 19 year old guy and have been masturbating to porn since I was 12 years old. Jerking off to porn started out as an innocent fascination and quickly became something I was doing every single day. I have known about the NoFap community for quite some time now, and have wanted to stop for years however I barely tried and never went past 2 weeks without PMO.

    Like many others, I started seeing someone and in the heat of the moment, I was devastated to find out I couldn't get hard. I like this girl. Not only is she smart and funny but she's gorgeous and has a sexy body...yet I was unable to get it up. It was extremely disappointing and embarrassing for me and its something I don't wish for any guy to experience. I realise I may lose this girl, and its absolutely soul crushing to think that this is something my negligence caused.

    So now, I have decided to take this NoFap thing more seriously. Clearly PMO has had some negative effects and its high time I get a hold of my life. Wish me lucky guys! Good luck to all of you!
     
  2. cardinal biggles

    cardinal biggles Fapstronaut

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    I hope she understands, if you look at the statistics of ED in young men since internet porn really exploded into modern life you'll realise that you're not alone. From my experience most women are understanding, just make sure she understands and that it's not her fault, the worst thing you can do is storm out or lose your temper, just try to put any awkwardness behind you and focus more on building a relationship instead of blowing your load. Best of luck.
     
  3. Primarch

    Primarch Fapstronaut

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    Indeed, I believe that there are pretty much no men who get ED and have not watched porn for over a year.
     
  4. cardinal biggles

    cardinal biggles Fapstronaut

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    That's terrible advice, it's perfectly normal to feel embarrassed with people you are comfortable with, especially during sex.

    As for this I honestly think you're trolling us, "make a baby with him" where the hell did you get that from!?
     
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  5. Might be a shocker but sex exists to make babies.
     
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  6. Damn savage but true!
     
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  7. cardinal biggles

    cardinal biggles Fapstronaut

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    Another shocker sex exists for more than just making babies
     
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  8. For what? From the perspective of evolution and genes' survival it would be really stupid for sex to be there for any other reason. You see it wouldn't benefit the genes that construct us. It takes a lot of energy to first develop organs for sex and then to use them for useless pleasure is stupid (or whatever thing they are meant for in your opinion). Secondly the act itself makes you vunelrable and takes energy. Where is the gain for anyone ( for our genes especially because they dictate our construction)? Idk if my sentences make sense, I'm tired, it's late. Good night.
     
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  9. p1n1983

    p1n1983 Fapstronaut

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    Print this image in you mind and everytime you want to fap remember that moment, is a really strong motivation to keep your hands away from you budy.
     
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