Craving a romantic relationship and affection?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by luke775, Apr 22, 2020.

  1. luke775

    luke775 Fapstronaut

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    Hi there,

    I'm an 18 year old from Australia and I started my NoFap journey last year. I've had several decent streaks with my longest being around 40-50 days. I'm currently on day 6 of a streak and determined to make it very far. I'm posting because everytime i'm on a streak I crave a real relationship with a woman and crave affection (not necessarily sexual). I just crave a woman to talk to and cuddle with etc. I know it's not a bad thing but just wondering if anyone else gets this feeling?

    Thanks!
     
  2. Zeezee

    Zeezee Fapstronaut

    In the same boat as you *sigh*
     
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  3. ANewFocus

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    The same here. The best part is that when I’m married and I want that I can have it. I just have to remember to ask for it, instead of seek it from porn.
     
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  4. luke775

    luke775 Fapstronaut

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    That's a good approach. Thanks man
     
  5. Lau

    Lau Fapstronaut

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    same here brother
     
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  6. FY_33

    FY_33 Fapstronaut

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    same here, since doing nofap, i want to get married. Craving for PMO changed to real girl:(

    this feeling started when 21 days no PMO passed, i don't know why i want to have an intimacy with a girl again, and the girl i saw in street become more beautiful in my eyes

    Right now, i have seen girl as the most beautiful creature that god has ever created, not just a mere to fulfill our sexual need ~ Thanks nofap:)
     
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  7. luke775

    luke775 Fapstronaut

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    When i was on my last streak it was around the 3 week mark that i started to get these feelings too. Interesting. I guess it's much better to crave a real girl and real intimacy than some fake stuff on a screen though! :)
     
  8. I think I'm starting to crave more and more contact with girls the more i keep doing nofap. Maybe that's a good thing idk.
     
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  9. drac16

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    Yeah, I get what you mean. I have the same desires. I crave the affection and the embrace of a woman. Holding hands, cuddling while watching a movie, leaving little post-it notes that say "I love you", etc. It's not so much sex that I am wanting, it's the affection.
     
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  10. In the same boat as everyone in this thread...*big sigh* but we must create value to ourselves before this happens.
     
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  11. luke775

    luke775 Fapstronaut

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    That's exactly it! Good to know other people experience the same thing.
     
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  12. Cloudstephen

    Cloudstephen Fapstronaut

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    Same here, I'm not depressed or lonely and for some odd reason, I am looking for a relationship with a girl. Actually, I am missing some girl friends that I had before which didn't work out.

    Seems odd really. I just want to talk with a girl. I mean, I'm willing to be used by a lonely girl right now (But definitely no serious relationship).
     

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