This is to all the guys who have DE, you can get better! I'm 23 years old and I never thought I could heal this. Ever since I started having sex I wasn't able to orgasm with a woman. I could only achieve it if my girlfriend gave me a very long lasting handjob. My penis was completly numb from "death grip" masturbation (to make things worse as a kid I used to masturbate prone), I couldn't feel a thing while having sex or getting a blowjob. After I found NoFap I regularly started quitting masturbation, it was really difficult and I relapsed many times, but my sensitivity started to come back. I usually relapsed at day 9 or 10, it wasent until I reached 15 days and came from a blowjob in 2 minutes that I realized this was the way to go. I did 23 days and still got DE, so I kept relapsing. The only way you can do this is if you really want to get better, with this in mind I went 40 days without masturbation and sex. I did not edge (althought I watched porn in moments of weakness or boredom) and that was essential. On day 41 I had sex, I was really nervous and I took me a long time to orgasm but I did it, laying on my back and streching my toes. On day 48 I tried again and came in 2 minutes, while doing missionary. I was cured! I never thought I would get rid of this, I suffered immensely and got frustrated hundreds of times. I can now enjoy sex like a regular person. If I could get better, and my situation was desperate, so can you!
Congratulations and great work. It must be an amazing and freeing feeling to get over this. Indeed, now you can enjoy normal sex. Persistence pays off! For the record, I would have probably been willing to try hundreds of times as well (maybe thousands if time allowed).
I cured my DE and my death grip since I have regained sensitivity. I was wondering if there was someone out there with a similar experience.
I have DE and mastubated prone when I was younger so I can relate I'm on day 39 hard mode and I haven't had intercourse during this time but my sensitivity is crazy so when I do hopefully i will finish, Im happy for you it gives me motivation to keep going hearing stories like yours well done
Thank you sir! It seems it's a longer recovery process for the ones who used prone masturbation, but we can all heal this. Once you decide to have sex remember to relax, it makes things a lot easier.
It is masturbating face down without hands. Usually this involves humping and thrusting the penis against the mattress. But some use a duvet, pillows, or even the carpet. It can really damage the structures of the penis. For example the frenulum (underneath) can be ripped off. Naturally, this can lead to a lot of desensitisation. About 20% of men use this method.
Sounds damaging! I'm fairly badly desensitised just from death grip over the years. Starting to feel more sensitive now but prone guys must take a long time to recover..
This post has given me a lot more confidence into nofap, thanks for sharing your story! I currently have the same problem and I am at day 15 and I can already notice sensitivity slowly coming back.
I had the same experience as you! I suffered from a bad case of Delayed Ejaculation and Death Grip, never finished during sex in my life. Last year I discovered NoFap and decided to try it. Had a few relapses, but a little after a month free of masturbating, I was able to finish, and have been cured of my D.E. ever since! I wrote a detailed post with my story, to help other people with this problem. Recovery is possible, and we're proof of it! http://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/how-nofap-changed-my-life.57759/
Hello guys! Im glad you find my post helpful. Delayed Ejaculation is horrible but NoFap helps you beat it. I have relapsed to porn and masturbation which have reduced my sensitivity. I am know on day 15 and I hope to do at least 60. NoFap works, never give up! Never surrender!
Hey man, thanks for posting this, I have a similar problem to you so I was just want to ask a few questions. Did your sensitivity increase significantly? Is sex as good or better than prone masturbatiom now? Do you have sex with a condom or not? Do blowjobs feel legitimately good or do you just cum faster only? Thanks.
Hey, it depends on how much time you do and how much sensitivity you have lost over the years. For me it took 40 days. My sensitivity improved , from feeling nothing to feeling everything. Sex is great and I feel more connected. I use a condom, prone masturbation is not even close to sex and blowjobs are fantastic. You really should try NoFap, there is no other cure for Delayed Ejaculation thats as effective as this.
That gives me hope, I'm on day 8 right now and I described my situation here: http://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/death-grip-will-nofap-help.58097/#post-431004 Please, take a look and give me your support
Dude!!! Sensacional! Identifiquei demais com sua história! Acabo de ler e ainda vejo que tu é brazuca! Felizão por ti! Grande abraço
Nice, good to see that there may be a light at the end. Millions of articles online about Premature Ejaculation, but delayed ejaculation is the unicorn in the forest.
