It's weird but for me, being with a woman happens right there, in that moment. If I plan a date, she pikes out. If I chicken out on asking her, she slips away. Instead, I have to make it happen in the situation. Sometimes I go out to sing karaoke. I'm the best, of course. There's always a woman there who gets interested. If I push it, I can get with her. The problem is that I need to stay NoFap to succeed. I'm trying to make it in music, the hardest career. If I have sex with girls or use PMO, I'm a dead man. So I need to build up the sex drive. But sometimes I can't deal with the loneliness and isolation. I like the adulation I get in public, I'm good looking and athletic. If I make it happen right there, then it happens, but if we set for the future, she won't do it. So this is my suggestion, to get to the kiss, and make it happen, not to let her cycle you in and among 50 other dudes in her phone. Because you'll have a tough time making something happen after that.