Dating/hookup websites. Yay or nay?

Hey everyone, after multiple failed attempts over the past few months, I'm finally in a place where I'm more determined than ever to make it at least 90 days without touching myself. Deleted my entire 100+ gb porn collection, got nothing on my phone, am talking to girls in the gym, etc.

Problem is I am super horny. I'm in four dating sites, but am lucky if I get one or two matches per month. Usually ends up being spam. I tried these hookup sites, but they're all BS. Full of bots that try to sign you up for cam sites, no thank you. I promised myself the next time I release, will be inside of a woman. Idc if I have withdrawals every single day, no touchy.

So my question is, how does this affect the mental aspect of a 90 day reboot? I'm on my grind, going to work every day, then straight to the gym. When I get home I work on my youtube channel and also study Japanese. I'm definitely not slacking off, and am transmutating my energy, however I'm still horny. I feel like I may come off as desperate when I talk to girl, like they can sense that I just wanna fk. Maybe that's why I'm not getting good results? What are your thoughts?