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Dating single mothers and mature women

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by modern milarepa, Apr 24, 2021.

  1. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    Single mothers:
    I personally can't date a single mother as soon as I hear she had a baby with another man I immediately loose attraction. I can't stand the idea of taking care of someone else's offspring or that she had a baby with someone else. Not even casually I'm able to date this type of girl.

    Mature women
    And mature women I think this always involves some type of female control in the older woman, why would she date someone much younger than her? To control him.

    What do you guys think of dating single mothers and mature women?
     
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  2. brassknucks

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    No bueno on single moms. On matures that you described, also no bueno, those types of mature women are too masculine. I went out with a mature divorcee just like that; she wanted to be the man in the relationship. Not gonna fly with me.
     
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  4. brassknucks

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    My radar is good at detecting Masculine females.
     
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  5. SickSicko

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    I call it the lion syndrome, lions kill other lion's cubs, we are not lions though, still, there is something deeply unsettling about the prospect of having to take care of other man's offspring.


    Not sure about this one...
    I don't think it requires that control, but surely it can be involved.
    Maybe is a woman that is on the decline and tries to stick to a man with still a lot of growth potential as she may have missed or ruined the oportunity with some previous ones.
     
  6. PanteriMauzer

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  7. based and redpilled
     
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  8. Based, redpilled, triple stamped it, no erasies, touch blue make it true.
     
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  9. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    From what I have seen mature women they have many traumas about men so they want to control you so they don't suffer again. Many act sweet in order to date you, they don't show their real self, also the therm milf "mom I would like to f**" well if she has a son/daughter you are going to spend your money and create an emotional bond with someone who is not your child and probably a teenager, so awkward. Also in terms of sex their body can look good but their skin is not the same as a young girl, also their vaginas are kind of loose, many start to dislike sex or not having a high sex drive because of hormonal decline, if you want to create a family it's not the best choice because of age is a dangerous pregnancy.

    This MILF is more a porn induced fantasy in reality they are not that great. Or tell me what milf you had sex or a great relationship @PanteriMauzer?
     
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  10. PanteriMauzer

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    Just sexting
     
  11. brassknucks

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    I'd give a Milf a chance only if she's super feminine. Otherwise nyet.
     
  12. Brazilian Polyglot

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    I've dated a 48 year-old when I was 22 years old. It had nothing to do with control, it was a plain regular relationship.

    But about single moms... oh well, they always want a guy who will play the daddy, right? We all know this shit. I don't think men should discard them because some of them still have an ok body, but a serious relationship is a completely no-no.
     
  13. Brazilian Polyglot

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    So an alpha man goes to the girl, does everything he wants in bed with her, and then when shit goes south and she gets pregnant, guess who will be there to save her from her sexual irresponsibility? The weak beta man, who will sacrifice his self-respect just to get a bit of sex. Changing diapers to another man's child LMAO, that shit's RIDICULOUS.
     
  14. It's alpha to be an absentee father?
     
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  15. NothingMoreNothingLess

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    Never, and I mean NEVER, get in a relationship with a woman who has baggage (kids). That is a recipe for disaster.
     
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  16. Brazilian Polyglot

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    It's alpha to be the one who reproduced while the beta didn't (and also changes other guy's kids' diapers LMAO).
     
  17. Brazilian Polyglot

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    Those guys who choose to raise another man's child instead of having his own is pretty much natural selection if you think about it.
     
  18. Is that your way of saying yes to my question?
     
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  19. AnthonyAsher

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    There is nothing wrong with dating a single mom or a mature woman. It all goes to understanding and trust that you have with each other. I have a friend who got married to a single mom and they are happy and my friend really loves the child of the woman. Also, in movies, single moms and dads have happy ending lol
     
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  20. SickSicko

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    That must be the most convincing argument I've ever heard lmao
     

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