Dating will hurt sometimes gotta accept this

I had a relationship 2 years. We had sex alot. But she still dished me in the end when she found a better option like it was nothing!

 

In my experience, the painful feeling of a girl rejecting me was the same whether I had sex with her or not. I’ve never been in a long term relationship before, but I’ve dated some girls - the ones I had a few dates with and no sex and then they ditched me were just as painful if not more painful than the ones I had a few dates with and had sex and then they ditched me.

the idea that having sex with a woman makes it harder to get over being dumped isn’t true in my opinion. The pain is just the same as if I had sex with them versus if I didn’t have sex with them

 

I used to think too much about s*x before. I used to be horny most of the time, and was constantly thinking about it. After going noFap hard mode, the s*x drive has come down quite a bit. Also the hornyness has come down as well. And I don't feel less of myself either, even though I don't have that much drive. That gives me a lot more confidence in general. That must be a good thing, right.

Keep up the good work on your noFap journey. This will actually help you get over past relationships, and will also help your self esteem in dealing with future breakups. My last streak was 30 days. After 3 days of multiple relapses, I am back on the journey with intention to push further. Because my self esteem is higher, my attitude with people in general is also better, and also has affected what I want from a relationship.

I have done just noFap P before. But after trying hard mode noFap PMO, I have realized how big a difference it really makes.

 

Yes that is the Christian advice but I went with my thinking of "I'll have sex with all my of my girlfriends in the future so I'll just go girl to girl" which didn't happen. I'm lucky that it didn't happen because I would be in a bigger hole then I am right now with masturbation and porn.