Dating with erection problems

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Yungdalsy, Sep 16, 2019.

  1. Yungdalsy

    Yungdalsy New Fapstronaut

    Hey people, I'm not a native english speaker, but I want to try because I need help. I'm dating a girl and we're probably going to have sex this weekend. I want to do it with her but I'm with a low libido and few erections because of porn, I didn't watch porn in 1 week because I'm new at this. I can do a lot of things but maybe she will be frustated if I don't have a good erection or if we don't have penetration xd, what do you recommend me to do?
  2. rebirthofT

    rebirthofT Fapstronaut

    I'm in the same situation and it's given me a strong resolve to break free of this addiction once and for all. I've explained that I have had issues with getting hard in the past (true) and that it's down to performance anxiety (partly true). I haven't talked to the girl I'm dating about PIED yet, but intend to explain my situation to her this weekend. We've got to know each other pretty well and formed quite a strong connection. I think she'll be understanding, but either way, given the recovery will take more than just a week or two, I need to be honest with her.
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  3. Baus

    Baus Fapstronaut

    I'm going through this too and even though my dick doesn't have any problems on the first round but I usually tend to lose erection during the course of the second and worse on the third
  4. It's love, not the olympic games. Boys stay cool.
    Definitively most girls are not only after a rock hard erection, they want a loving man.
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