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Day 1: Porn and Sexual Fantasies

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by tryagainextime, Dec 2, 2020.

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  1. Dec 2, 2020 #1
    tryagainextime

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    Multiple times throughout the day I've had cravings to PMO. I've had urges to do it in public, I've had urges to use chatrooms again, I've had urges to rape women and thoughts of doing so and most disturbingly, I've had thoughts and urges to practise necrophillia.

    I would never do anything like that but at the same time I feel as though my fantasies are getting even more extreme now that my streaks are lasting longer (my last few being 30, 25, 22 and 19 days respectively). What should I do about this? If I were to watch porn and masturbate, I know that I'd just be feeding these urges and they'll come back stronger and more frequently.
     
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  2. Dec 2, 2020 #2
    +TenPercent

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    Well, it sounds like you have some anger tied in with your PMO habits. Emotions are powerful and often times get entangled with our sexual arousal. For some its rage and anger, for others it might be shame, regrets or low self esteem. For example, I have fantasies of being "abused" by women, other men have fantasies of being the abuser.
    Maybe try to see if you can figure out where the anger comes from. Why do you get turned on by some of those more extreme fantasies? See if you can figure it out.

    And, if you do need to masturbate, maybe see if you can do it without porn, perhaps with "healthier" fantasies. It sounds like PMO is likely to take you down the rabbit hole every time.
     
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