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Day 1, Woman attraction.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Feb 21, 2021.

  1. Yes! You saw that right. Day 1 and woman attraction. You might ask yourself, Is that even possible ? Well! It is gentlemen.

    I take this as a part of my success because I really really was very bad looking guy. I was obese. 1 or 2 years before, my weight was around 80kgs. I had Premature Ejaculated and Porn Induced Erectile dysfunction as well.
    Now my weight is b/w 65 - 67 kgs. And I don't have any of the above problems.

    Let's start.
    Woman attraction on Nofap. (This is what I believe).

    For the people who are doing nofap and semen retention to gain woman attraction then I believe you're in the wrong thread and it's not gonna either.
    I explain why.
    I joined nofap around May or June 2020. My main motive was to get more woman attraction.
    I literally made a thread about woman attraction on nofap, asking people if nightfall affects woman attraction or not. Check it out.
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/does-nightfall-affects-woman-attraction.288169/
    I was worried that whether on nightfall, the woman attraction is lost or not. And it was my first thread. My first streak started and ended after 80 days. All these 80 days, I was expecting to get woman attraction. I worked on myself. Built up confidence, made a healthy body, lost weight. Became attractive. People were saying that i became more matured.
    But I wasn't happy coz I wasn't getting my main thing, woman attraction. I felt depressed and I relapsed. After then, I have been stuck in chaser effect till now. I fell into porn and began to dig even deeper. It's been 3 months I am relapsing to porn and it eventually changed my taste. I was getting aroused by watching people having sex.
    As porn escalates. If you don't know how then watch this thread
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?t...yeur-cuck-and-how-to-get-rid-of-these.303098/
    This is a thread by me on how porn escalation works.
    I thought that let's not become a voyeur/cuck and change this category. Recently I did a 16 days streak. Where my main goal was to bring my sexuality back to normal. At that time, I forgot about woman attraction. I didn't give a damn about it. Thought let's be a full brahmachari. Let's avoid woman.
    However I was peeking into my favorite pornstar Pic. And I eventually relapsed to porn again that is yesterday.
    Today is my day 1. I had a wedding invitation where I had 0 expectations that I will be getting woman attraction. Guess what ? I was wrong.

    I have explained what happened at the wedding in my journal.

    The key is that :-
    "If you're doing Nofap then always do it for yourself"
    "Don't run after women, let women run after you"
    "Don't do nofap to gain women attraction" trust me you will not get.
    "Work on yourself and have patience"


    And the most important quotes - " the more you run for women, you'll not get noticed. The more you run way from women, you'll get noticed". This is my personal experience.
     
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  2. One thing i know is that girls don't like "needy" guys, they put their full throttle just to escape from them! and that's happened when a hungry guy seeks for girls only showing his weakness.
     
  3. Shadow™輝ツ

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    YEah i myself used to do nofap just for the women attraction lol, tbh its just in the head that you think youll attract women just cuz u dont bust a nut, there are guys who bust a nut everyday and still date the most prettiest girls, ofc looks play the biggest role in attraction, and nofap saves more of our time to work on us to improve on that:)
     
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  4. I don't think seeking female attention is the best way to get them. Sure, you can talk to them, sure you can flirt, get some of that attention but not like have main focus on it.
     
  5. TheForsakeen

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    that is weak for a man(unless you are short).
     
  6. What do you consider a strength for a man. Being chubby like you who has a small one and can't even get it up.
     
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  7. TheForsakeen

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    sry if i offended, by "weak" i meant underfed, 80kg is average weight for a 'fit' male (unless you are short).
     
  8. I too believe in woman attraction mister.
    Also I belive in the more you go to woman, you will become a needy for them.
     
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