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Day 10 now, should I M?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Ghost79, Apr 7, 2016.

  1. Ghost79

    Ghost79 Fapstronaut

    My goal is to never to watch porn but I have not taken a stand on m because i actually think once a month m is natural and healthy to get rid of too much sexual energy.
    My main goal why I do this is to raise my confidence and be a worty man to my future wife, if god is willing to give me one.
    So the question is it ok to M just once every month? Or is that still bad?
  2. Loyal

    Loyal Fapstronaut

    Why are you asking us this question? But the fact is, you still shouldn't masturbate at all. I did it at 15 days, because I thought I was invincible now, and what I was doing was healthy. Nope, dropped back to binging like a maniac again. I STILL AM!

    Your brain is trying to rationalize your fapping habits. Do not listen to your second voice.

    High sexual energy is actually another that makes you confident, especially around women. You know that good butterflies and warming feeling when you are around a girl that you like? You know you are confident, so you can act funny and easily impress her. And you will get attention from her, and she will gaze you and play with you.

    High sexual energy can also be transmuted into sports, homework, sleep, and other stuff. While still retaining the attraction from girls and/or women. Do not relapse, brother. You will regret it.
  3. Awakening123

    Awakening123 Fapstronaut

    If you are an addict then go 90 days without fap and then you can start fapping once a month or whatever you intend to. Right now you can't masturbate a month cuz you might be fapping once every few days because of the addiction.

  4. Ghost79

    Ghost79 Fapstronaut

    Thank you for your advice. I will abstain completely then. Only draw side of this is that I will have to change my underwear often in the mornings!
    Awakening123 likes this.

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