Day 16 still no change with gf

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Tokenator27, Jul 16, 2018.

  1. Tokenator27

    Tokenator27 Fapstronaut

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    Haven't done anything in 16 days, tried to get affectionate with my girl last night and didn't even have the urge. I got an erection but I didn't want whats happened before (going soft inside her) to happen again. Bad enough the porn and death grip have gotten into my head but now the feeling of being unable to perform is stuck in my head. This fucking sucks.
     
  2. Prince The Alpha Male

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    Dude 16 is way too early, even thirty.

    Give it at least 50 to 60. I'm on day 107 now and I used to also go soft inside during sex only when using condoms.

    Do not fall back!! Keep going.

    Your progress though depends on how bad your addiction was. I used to masturbate once a day, twice maximum everyday or somedays skip a day or 2. But it was bad, I was addicted as time weny by and when I met my girlfriend I felt so motivated that I never relapsed ever again.

    We had sex recently and it was crazy amazing. I Came within 8 minutes, shouldve came earlier but I would pull out and relax myself while pleasing her then go back in, ive never been addicted to pussy like this before it was so amazing.

    She is currently away on holidays and its been like 3 weeks still one more to go till she comes back so we both know ill probably cum in less then 10 and my girlfriend wants us to do it for more then an hour so she said she will blow me off till I cum before we go in on the first round for a long run like we always do.

    I'm telling u all this to let u know how much u missing on. You already have someone to motivate you do stick to it. I know how depressing it is to be on like day 17 and u thirsty to blow your girls mind but u will. Give it time.

    And remember to stay determined
     
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  3. EricKungFooled

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    I think 60 to 90 days is the minimum. At 30 days I am incredibly horny and feel I won't have any problems like before. I am working to 90 days hard mode to be safe.
    Also when I had issues performing for the first time it really went to my head. I think the anxiety that you might go soft or have issues makes it much more likely.
    That is another reason I'm waiting 90 days. If my current state at 30 days is any indication, I'm pretty sure at 90 days I won't be able to last more than a minute.
     
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  4. Tokenator27

    Tokenator27 Fapstronaut

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    I have minor P addiction. Ive shaken that easily. Its the death grip I'm mainly suffering from.
     
  5. Prince The Alpha Male

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    Is also suffered for a death grin. Like I said vents it all takes time. Counting will stress U out, stay away from the nofap website and only come thrue 5 days. Forget about your counter coz coming here will just put U on panic when U see other people's 200 day streak success stories then comparing it to your 15/20 days.

    Im already so far but I usually log in every 5 or 10 days at least to give out my success thus far. I'm currently waiting for day 150 before I post another success story, just 42 days to go.

    I don't even think about it anymore it just flows. I don't even care anymore coz I hate the word porn and masturbation too. Id honestly choke in my own piss before I ever do such again. That's how fucused and determined I am. I finally realised how porn is ruining so many people's lives including mine that I despise it. And U have to despise them but in order to reach all your goals.

    Read up, watch this other documentary about porn. They've all really helped
     
  6. EricKungFooled

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    This probably varies from person to person but the nofap site has helped me get to my 30 days so far. Before couldn't get past a week. So staying away may not be the best advice but everyone is different.

    For me it seeing people with 300+ days is an inspiration and gives me hope that I can break free from the chains of porn.
     
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    I also got motivated but reading them every single day didn't help. I just read one inspiring story then logged out and continued. That's how I got to my 107 days today.

    I'm inspired by myself now I only post my success stories every few weeks or days. I just like other people's success stories but I'm more focused on mine now.

    As you say. Stick to what works for you.
     
  8. Tokenator27

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    With desensitivoty beimg my main issue I'm wondering if one of these penis resensitizing creams I've seen online will do anything to help me out. My mind is much more ready and willing to take the next step than my body is so far.
     

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