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Day 17 of no Porn ... Libido is gone

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by theSlayer, Apr 23, 2017.

  1. theSlayer

    theSlayer Fapstronaut

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    Hi.

    I realized since yesterday that my libido is pretty much gone at the moment. I'm normally a highly sexual person but right now I pretty much have no interest in it.

    Yesterday my girlfriend practically jumped me and I couldn't get it up ... at all. I stopped watching porn because I realized that I suffered from PIED, but even though I do, I could still manage to get my soldier up to at least half mast. But yesterday, nothing ... it remained completely flaccid despite her best efforts.

    Not only that, I wasn't into it like I usually am. The desire just wasn't there at all. I just fingered her and gave her oral to please her, and that was it.

    I've had sex with her before since the start of my reboot and I managed to maintain an erection throughout, though the cheap ass condom was quite numbing.

    She's also given me handjobs and I had no trouble keeping it up.

    But yesterday, there was no desire at all, and it just wouldn't function. It was quite embarrassing to say the least.
     
  2. Uruvug

    Uruvug Fapstronaut

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    I have been doing this rebooting successfully for the first time. I am on a record streak even though it is still very few days. So far I have noticed that my desire to watch porn is there, but is very low. I mean, I know I can keep on going without a problem. I guess my libido is also low, however, if I see a sexy girl walking on the street I still have that desire mentally, but it's just that physically nothing happens to me. I am almost a month of no PMO and I still feel like I might be in that so-called flatline period. I don't know how much longer I will need to wait.
     
  3. Lewit

    Lewit Fapstronaut

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    Hang in there~~~Dude!
     
  4. AscendRestore

    AscendRestore Fapstronaut

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    My libido vanished for about a month.
    You feel confused when it's gone... but it's easier that way.
    Urges are really frustrating.
     
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  5. Uruvug

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    Yeah, happened to me too. Right after a month without porn and masturbation I started to get the libido back, and also I started to notice that in the morning I was getting pretty hard erections.
     
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  6. Riddle22

    Riddle22 Fapstronaut

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    good to hear that.
     
  7. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

    HappyDaysAreHereAgain Fapstronaut

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    Check out some if the threads on flatline. After the first few days or weeks, the strong urges fade, an we go into a phase that is referred to as flatline. We have to resist the desire to prove to ourselves that we can still function sexually. In flatline, we tend to panic and do anything to get an erection and orgasm. That kicks us back to the first stage and we have to fight the urge to keep on fapping.
    If you want to heal, and avoid the endless loop, stay strong with no-PMO. Your body and mind are healing, let them heal. Flatline is a great time to get social. You do not see anybody as a sexual object, so you can relate to them as if they were real people. It is good to have some friends when you have healed and your desires return.
    Live wisely, prepare for tomorrow.
     
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  8. Fightthedevil

    Fightthedevil Fapstronaut

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    Flatline Probably Could Last 20-30 days.
     
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  9. gvtrhg

    gvtrhg Fapstronaut

    My libido is gone right now. It's actually been really stressing me out.... I've struggled with my sexual identity in the past, whether I might even be on the asexual spectrum. But I realized that with and without porn I was physically aroused by guys, so I am gay. But now that I have no libido because of NoFap, I feel lost again...

    It's really nice to hear I'm not the only one!!! I don't really see many if any posts about this, so thank you.
     

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