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Day 24. is sexting fine during no PMO?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Brown Sugar, Jul 28, 2017.

  1. Jul 28, 2017 #1
    Brown Sugar

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    Hello everyone,
    I am on day 24.i am feeling much better than before.i am noticing some positive changes in life after 24 days of no PMO.last night my ex started texting with me.i got horny when we started chatting BC in the past we used to sex chat.last night happened the same thing but I didn't O . during the on my bed I feel strong urge.should I stop talking to her?she used to send me her nudes and I know it can happen again.does sexting comes under porn?
     
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  2. Jul 28, 2017 #2
    Flyhigh

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    P subs. But it can be a great way maybe for you and your ex to reunite and bring back the old romance.
     
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  3. Jul 28, 2017 #3
    Iamthemasterofmylife

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    Personally, I think that's a red flag. If this is the basis to start romance, then you'll be dependent on sex again instead of the emotional bond between two people.

    Come brother, let's not sexualize women and continue this journey as gentlemen.
     
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  4. Jul 28, 2017 #4
    Flyhigh

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    OK yea I'm sorry about the comment.
     
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  5. Jul 28, 2017 #5
    Brown Sugar

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    I think you are right.i should stay away from any kind of trigger.she don't know about my commitment to no PMO andi don't want to discuss with her about this so I will stop communicating with her.
     
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  6. Jul 28, 2017 #6
    Smartboyj

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    Be careful with this .... You have got to DAY 24 which is amazing , you should be proud of this!!

    But P subs are Dangerous !!! Using these will still give your brain the dopamine hit it wants and after a few hours or days of using a P sub when you get a strong urge you will relapse …

    Don’t lose all your hard work..

    Keep fighting and move forward
     
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  7. Jul 28, 2017 #7
    Brown Sugar

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    Thanks bro!
    Yes it's like substituting cocaine with heroin.now I have understood that there is no replacement of porn.i have to get over it.These strong urges are haunting me.i know it will take time but I will do it.nofap community is really wonderful though it's a virtual world but it's like boon for PMO addict like us.
     
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  8. Jul 28, 2017 #8
    nofepfepforlife

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    Depends how deep into it you get. Popping a boner now and then is ok (dont do it often) but if you start touching yourself you risk hurting your reboot, at least that's how it is for me, my PIED is moderate to severe. Which basically means I have to go true hard mode if I want to recover.
     
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  9. Jul 28, 2017 #9
    Brown Sugar

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    Yes I am doing this mistake of touching myself on few occasions which I enjoyed a lot.before no PMO I used to rub my penis head but since first day of my streak I am not touching myself often.i am challenging myself with few triggers like surfing hot women on Instagram and last night I did sexting.now I have understand I need to stop this before i relapse in a vicious moment.
    Thanks for your advice!
     
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  10. Jul 28, 2017 #10
    nofepfepforlife

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    Yeah looking for artificial stimulation (pics on the internet) will hurt your reboot I'm sorry to say. Guys like us need to go monk mode. You'll get there, I got there for a while then I relapsed a few times to my old favourite pornos and pictures and edged a couple times now now I'm only just pushing out of a flatline. It fucking sucks but thats a lesson learned for me. Hopefully over the next 90 days I'll get my progress back. No pics, not touching, nothing. It has to be true hard mode this time.
     
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  11. Jul 29, 2017 #11
    Brown Sugar

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    On what day are you?
     
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  12. Jul 29, 2017 #12
    nofepfepforlife

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    Roughly 150+ days of rebooting and 24 days so far hard mode. I'm not sure how long my last hard mode streaks were, I wasn't counting relapses when I should have been. Mind you I haven't O'd ONCE during this course but I did PM multiple times. End of June and beginning of July I edged 2-4 times. Those were serious relapses and I definitely felt the effects of it.
     
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  13. Jul 29, 2017 #13
    HappyFuck'nDays

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    I miss sexting with flip-phones and their 1.5mpx cameras. Man. Those were the days.
     
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  14. Jul 29, 2017 #14
    Timetolevelup

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    From my experience, coming from someone who has yet to accomplish a full reboot (69 days is my max) I am figuring out that sexting is near pointless. If you want to escalate, why not just do it in person? In my experience it triggers me so I just do my best to avoid it completely.
     
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