Day 276 giving up

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Kyrie12, Nov 10, 2019.

  1. Kyrie12

    Kyrie12 New Fapstronaut

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    Day 276 of nofap I’m giving up, this really doesn’t help at all. I’m still lonely no friends well only 2 but they have girlfriends and be busy most of the time.


    Honestly I seen no changes really I don’t know if it was because of me or what. Don’t get me wrong I felt the energy and strength increase, but everything else I didn’t.


    Never once caught a girl looking at me


    Still nervous whenever I talk to female/don’t know how to make conversation


    I’m never confident when I talk to females or approaching them


    I’m not social at all


    Still have anxiety


    Like I’m just all over this now, oh and yea if you hadn’t guess it by now I’m still a 21 year old virgin. I wish it was gone tonight. Sometimes I think about getting a hooker, now I’m really considering it cause I’m tired of being virgin.


    I did mange to get this girl number from my job I don’t know how I did but, I never text her tho cause Like I said I don’t know how to start conversation. She probably thinks I’m weird for that, omg... but it would be nice to talk to her.


    Sorry this may be all over the place but, idk. I’m just tired of this. I read everyone else’s story and their doing great but not me,


    It’s been almost a year since I fapped but that might be over with here in a minute, I really don’t care at this point..
     
  2. Jimmyabraham23

    Jimmyabraham23 New Fapstronaut

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    DON’T, text the girl, do the right thing for your brain and yourself. You got this man, just think how bad you’ll feel after you ejaculate, is not worth it. Text the chick and arrange a date, go out ane have a good time life is short buddy.
     
  3. dankestmemes

    dankestmemes Fapstronaut

    What is the point of "talking to girls?" How you answer will indicate the path you need to take to reach your goal (s) such as eating healthier, working out, studying harder so you can get a good job (and money/resources to exchange for things/services that you value).
     
  4. Kyrie12

    Kyrie12 New Fapstronaut

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    I’ve Been lonely for 21 years really didn’t have female friends, I just want some one to talk to..
     
  5. dankestmemes

    dankestmemes Fapstronaut

    What was your original goal with nofap?
     
  6. Kyrie12

    Kyrie12 New Fapstronaut

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    It sounds so easy, but I’m not a conversation starter really... what if it goes bad then she tells everyone. That will be embarrassing
     
  7. dankestmemes

    dankestmemes Fapstronaut

    If a girl is attracted to you, you won't need to do much talking. And if you're also attracted to her, you'll naturally let the conversation flow. Now to tackle the first part: making yourself an attractive person to this girl. Find a source of confidence and pride. Do you have some trait or skill that you take pride in? If not, start cultivating it. I post left and right in this community about taking care of your body because that's my source of pride and confidence. For others it could be something else like dance. If you don't know how to start a conversation, how about asking the other person to explain or teach you something? Be GENUINELY interested in others, and they will be interested in you. Be curious.
     
  8. Kyrie12

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    better myself which I did in like 3 months, and I do eat healthy sometimes but I drink lots of water, and I might go back to school idk. BUT NOW I jss want someone to talk to, vibe with. I really am tired of being virgin tho
     
  9. Vijay5610

    Vijay5610 Fapstronaut

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    NoFap is not magic everything will not happen by magic u gotta take action u gotta fight for what u need
     
  10. skibum71

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    So (apart from nofap, which is hugely overrated imho) what are you doing to improve your situation?
     
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  11. lirider

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    You might be tired of being virgin but don't do something stupid like get a hooker or even a one night stand. That feeling of fapping into a tissue is nothing compared to after you do the two mentioned above. The feeling of regret is like ten times worse. You're young. Give it time. Speaking from experience....
     
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  12. Camelon

    Camelon Fapstronaut

    I guess nofap isn't supposed to solve all these problems, it"s unfair to relate all these things to it.
    Giving up also will never make u the perfect one but will worsen it for sure
    Man ur doing that for urself not for people or a girl
    U deserve better
    Love & praise urself.....
     
  13. Zapster21

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    I did not have sex until I was 23. Now I have had sex more than 500 times. Your time will come!
     
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  14. blunt.ever

    blunt.ever Fapstronaut

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    Your answer encouraged me very much. You have my respect!
     
  15. FellatiousD

    FellatiousD Fapstronaut

    This man is a LEGEND
     
  16. cleanliving81

    cleanliving81 Fapstronaut

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    WOW, my hero
     
  17. Saurav04

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    276 Days that's a very big number. I know I have been addicted to PMO and never crossed 30 days. In 30 days I felt change.
    Ask yourself in those 276 have you worked on improving yourself or your mind was always looking for sex.
    Tell me what was in your mind related to sex or you kept thinking doing sex with girls?
     
  18. TangoTao

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    Well it is kind of a magic, but its more like a passive skill, that enhances all the other actions we do... provided we take them that is... it's true once you get to certain long streak it is quite natural to ask yourself why were you doing it in the first place,
    and retrack yourself from time to time - NOT NEED TO GIVE UP!!! - (its ok to say it - just don't give up on it)
    I guess once you get over it - you will find some lucky situation in some of the most unexpected way, you can always see far enough to see the next step.
     
  19. Infrasapiens

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    Why would not masturbating to pornography help you stop being a virgin? That's like saying I will be thin because I ate a piece of celery two weeks ago.
     
  20. FY_33

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    If you want to quit just remember why you started
     
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