Day 3 - Milestone help

Hi Fapstronauts!

I'm a beginner and have a few questions to which I can't really find any answers.

But first some background: I'm a 27 year old in a long term relationship. I've been masturbating daily since I was 16. And in the last 3 years 3 to 4 times a day. Everyday. Always to porn, manga or sexstories. I've developed very specific and extreme fetishes to which I can get off and normal vaginal penetration porn isn't doing it for me anymore at all. I can ONLY get of to very extreme porn.
Also Masturbation became more of a habit than a call by lust. I didn't start mastubrating because Inwas horny, but because it was bedtime or I was bored.
This also displayed itself in my sexlife. I didn't really want to have sex anymore and so our sex life died down a lot. It became very hard to get a boner and there's no doubt, that I have PIED.

Now I'll be getting married in a month and I talked to my gf to not have any sexual activity up until our wedding night.

I took this chance to start nofap/nopmo. And I feel great. I mean GREAT. I'm confident and so incredibly productive. But, there's a but.

It wasn't hard. I didn't have the urge to masturbate. Besides some morning wood I didn't have an erection. And I'm starting to get worried. Every story on here states, that the first week is the hardest, but I'm having none of that. I'm scared I killed my sexuality and whether or when it comes back.

I would be very grateful for tips or stories by people who had similar experiences.

Thanks,
Bob

 

Thanks man! Any suggestions how on long that's supposed to take?