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Day 31: Random erection with my gf. Am i getting better (Pied 20 years old)

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by buz123, Apr 22, 2019.

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  1. Apr 22, 2019 #1
    buz123

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    hey guys,

    so i’m currently on day 31 of hard mode, and my goal was to get to 30 and try to have sex but i’m still a bit nervous i won’t be able to get a strong erection again. i’ve been getting erections (small and big) when i’m doing something that includes touching with my girl, which i believe is a good sign right (didn’t happen often before). my question to you guys is do you guys think i’m ready? any advice or tips? is it a good thing that i’m getting these erections?
     
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  2. Apr 22, 2019 #2
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    Anxiety will kill a boner faster than anything, my man. Just go with the moment. Don’t anticipate anything or you’ll just get nervous about it. I think you’ll be fine :)
     
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  3. Apr 23, 2019 #3
    buz123

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    your right, i feel like i’m ready but after failing the first 2 times before hardmode i think too much about it. got any tips to cut that anxiety out?
     
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  4. Apr 23, 2019 #4
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    I wish I did. I’ve suffered with it my entire life. On nofap it was 10 times worse. It has settled down though. I have noticed that when I wasn’t scared of failing...or if I talked to my girlfriend at the time and told her that I’m really anxious about it and it might not work, then everything goes fine.
     
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  5. Apr 23, 2019 #5
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    Good work so far. Try just being in the moment and enjoying the intimacy, let things flow naturally and don't think. I know it's easier said than done but keep going and you will get it.
     
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