Day 38 and my life is totally changed.

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  1. Kazmi

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    Hi, I am from muslim majority country where getting sex is something really really hard. Anyways coming back to the topic and making things short. I have been masterbating from past 10 years. I am 22 right now. I had been facing all the nightmares that porn could ever give to anyone. No wet dreams, no morning wood, no friends ( not even males), no girl to even talk to even on fb. I was in severe ED. Tried to have sex with two prostitutes in past yet had no erection in bed and it made me even more of a jerk believing the fact that I am no more a man in the world.

    I started NoFap 38 days back with my full dedication and believe me what ever I am about to say is gonna be real.

    I have got some wonderful friends, great ones who would die for me. I have got 3 official gfs. One I got from fb, one is a friend of my friend, and one is from a random meeting. I had my date in this period after a big time. Even I was havinf alot of anxiety still got my kisses and hugs. Another meeting with the same girl and I had solid erections and she masterbated me. The third time we met on bed was awesome; we kissed and hugged for more than an hour and she gave me blowjobs and masterbated me yet she couldn't give m a release, I was hard the whole time, and she said did you take any medicines? I said nah... I didn't fuck her because she was on periods.

    Another benifit is that now I start to love my self, I have started gym and rmeating clean( mostly vegetables, no sugar and oil). I see myself beautiful now, and not the ugly useless freak. My life is like totally changed.

    Perhaps I am still on flat line as my erections are not strong and urges are just bearable. But guess what today I had my first wet dream of my life. I am just so happy thinking about getting married in next 5 years.

    I love you NoFap and everyone here who has supported me.
     
  2. SkyFallBack

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    This is as real as it can get! Way to get those girls! But of course you are seeing them in a more healthy way instead of objectifying them.

    Keep pushing on!
     
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  3. Kazmi

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    Thanks bro. I have felt that my thinking has been significantly changed toward girls for good. :)
     
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  4. pcmaster

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    Gratz on getting friends and gilrs man ! LOL you didnt had friends and now have 3 girlfriends lol. How often did you fapped if just a month could bring you such results?

    I was pretty much like you when I was 23 - no friends, no girls. But I stopped jerk off and suddenly all girls started to like me and guys became friendly to me. So yeah real changes comes after a month. Still now at 28 I feel like I needed 3 months instead of 1 to get the same results, but yeah, just feeling more in control, just stronger in life in general.

    So keep it up man. Stay strong even if good things with girls stops and learn not to fap even when theres no one who could jerk you off. Right now its easy for you to stay clean because its easy but even if things get hard, not the way you want or planned then still remember that you doing this for yourself not anyone else. Things you do when no one see is the things that makes you.
    To keep safe in future I would recomend start training - like gym or swim and find a hobby. Besides not fapping a lot of things need to be done to grow and stay motivated. Nofap helps only for beggining, but later to grow and evolve staying clean wont be enough.

    So good luck man ! Go for what you want and grab the life by the pussy !
     
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  5. MindfulAchilles

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    What?!!

    You admitted yourself that you have 3 girlfriends, WOMEN - that you are using sexually for your own gratification. Do they know of each other and feel this is ok? Are you expecting them to fulfill you sexually (by your description - it seems that the relationship goes only one way)?
    How is that "seeing them (girls) in a more healthy way instead of objectifying them" @SkyFallBack and how is this a "significant change toward girls for good" @_Syed ? Guys, read your own words, please. The moment you make a woman a trophy to brag about, and your own sexual gratification her sole purpose - you have made her an object and yourself the master.
     
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  6. Kazmi

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    Amazind advices by you and I redoec that. I was fapping for every single day twice all my life. Now I am doing great life just seems so beautiful now. I used to think that I was ugly all my life and look at me now, I just love myself now.
     
  7. Kazmi

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    I used to think women as an object as porn only show them as a sex object. The only thing I used to see in women was their holes. That was the reason I had severe ED. But now I consider them as human beings they enjoy with me. I enjoy the kissing talking and even the scent of their perfume. NoFap sure gives alot of positivity. My ED is even cured now.
     
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  8. LonerWolf

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    only show... wow thats fucking disgusting.
     
  9. Kazmi

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    What does that suppose to mean?
     
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  10. Kazmi

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    Yes you are right. This is how porn adjust our brains to think about.
     
  11. LonerWolf

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    Well in any case, don't question my rewiring and changing perception.
     
  12. Kazmi

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    We all are different. I was just telling you guys what this evil porn has done to me in the past.
     
  13. Julians

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    I'm happy for ou man
     
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  14. pcmaster

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    It was just you thinking that you are ugly so it was your reality. You believed that not just you think you about yourself a ugly but everyone was thinking that. Thats why you had this problem. Everyone complaining about their looks but no one is complaining about their brains lol.
     
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  15. Kazmi

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    Just because of my anxiety and having no girls in life because of porn addiction I used to call myself ugly. But the reality was far more different and we only realize it when we quit these addictions. They are worse than cocaine.
     
  16. pcmaster

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    Yeah I see where you coming from. I was thinking Im a monster until I stopped fapping for 3 months, then started to feel good about myself. But what really helped to realize that theres still a chance for me with girls is when after 3 years on dating site one girl finaly responded to me and there was 2 amazing months together afterwards. First real kiss and first night in bed with a girl is great memories.
     
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    Keep your mental stamina strong, that's what determines whether you make or break. Success bro!
     
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  18. Irish Explorer

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    Where on earth is this backwards country where men have three girlfriends? o.0
     
  19. Kazmi

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    Cheers to that.
     
  20. Kazmi

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    I will never gonna break because its the only thing that I have now. Just like the last chance of survival in this hell of demons.
     

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