Day 4

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by DalyStrgle, Mar 22, 2016.

  1. DalyStrgle

    DalyStrgle Fapstronaut

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    I am now at day 4, and I am feeling completely disconnected. I'm not sure if I am flatline, stressed from external circumstances in life, or what. I actually have no interest in going online. I guess this is a good thing. The only thing that I do find interesting is this forum. I'm sure by this afternoon when my wife goes to work which is usually the hardest time for me I will be online here again. It is like turmoil in my head though, I am constantly thinking about porn but yet not really desiring going to go look at it. Thus my opening line of feeling completely disconnected.
     
  2. Ikindaknew

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    Flatlining is a good thing.
    Getting rid of porn/sex ideas is a goal. Be like a good gardener, that extracts all the weeds from the good soil, to leave the place clean and leave room for the good seeds and plants to grow....every porn idea, objectification of women, fantasies, etc should be extracted from your "mind garden"....that will help flatlining.

    Keep all you energy and your seeds for your wife. try to be "asexual" in life, as much as you can, outside of the bedroom. That will help you reboot. You will end up enjoying real sex with wifey more! Learn to be satisfied by the amount of real sex you get...hopefully you are having sex regularly....

    your thoughts?
     
  3. DalyStrgle

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  4. DalyStrgle

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    Agreed ikindanew! Time with the wife is always fleeting as she is a third shifter. It is "regular" as it can be, but their lies another problem. Because of this flatline feeling it has been darn near impossible to perform. I am lucky my wife is very sexual however when I cannot perform there is a real question as to why. I have not been able to share this with her yet and not sure if I can. My own head telling me this and no more. I have gone nofap in the past for 30 days years ago. It was awesome. The sex was awesome and somewhere I fell off the wagon so to speak. I cannot do this anymore. This addiction has to end.
     
  5. RandomDude99

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    I am on day 5, I had some low points yesterday, I just broke up with my GF too (unrelated reasons) so that may have been in part to blame. Keep at it!
     
  6. DalyStrgle

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    Last night was fantastic. The first time I've been with my wife for at least four months and been able to perform. Missing P less and less, intimacy with my wife is getting Better and better.
     
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  7. immanuel.iitd

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    are you still in flatline?
     
  8. DalyStrgle

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    No I am not! I started noticing a lot of night and morning wood which was a good sign. Also, when my wife would even brush by me I am getting action in the south. I was horrified during flatline. I am so grateful for this forum and community to talk about the feelings and anxiety which comes along with this addiction.
     

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