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Day 51 hardmode freaking out

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Deleted Account, Oct 5, 2019.

  1. Suffering from PIED I need help

    I’m on day 51 of hardmode and flatline right now. Yesterday I couldn’t get it up with my girlfriend because of the flatline and I felt humiliated. I’m losing motivation with nofap. How much longer am I going to suffer from this flatline???
     
  2. Despicable me

    Despicable me Fapstronaut

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    Take it easy. Its mental and worrying makes it worse. Day 51 is good count in itself. Do you have Morning wood? If you have, then the problem is in your head.
     
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  3. I don’t have morning wood, I’ve had like 2 on this streak but other than that I haven’t had morning wood for years
     
  4. Hey man! I'm in the same boat as you, I have PIED as well.

    I can honestly say that it gets better the longer you wait. Right now your body may actually be ready but your nerves is what cause you to lose your erections.

    Instead of having sex, try to cuddle or be intimate with a girl. Let it happen more naturally and take the expectations of sex off your mind!

    If you're getting morning wood/night wood and you haven't been diagnosed with any problems you shouldn't be having a physiological issue!

    And you're already 51 days in, it would be a complete waste of time to PMO again and it will just set you back further. You can do it!
     
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  5. Camelon

    Camelon Fapstronaut

    How long ur PMO addiction???
     
  6. Fallensoldier1

    Fallensoldier1 Fapstronaut

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    The flatline comes and goes. Trust me. The other day with my wife I got hard just looking at her and we had sex like rabbits and yesterday she was wanting to and I struggled to get hard and I wasn’t horny at all. I didn’t even finish once we finally got it up and inside.

    Wait it out. Things will get better. Do not go back to PMO to see if you can get it up.
     
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  7. Yellowknife

    Yellowknife Fapstronaut

    It's important that you shirk the feelings of humiliation.

    Your brain is rewiring. You are forming new mental pathways.

    Instead of focusing on humiliation … which will give you problems getting it up again in the future because you'll be worried about it..

    Focus on there being more to touching women than your penis.

    You were equipped with a tongue, and with fingers. Do some reading on finding a G spot, engage your GF and play with her. She'll be happy for the attention, trust me. Learn how her body works with your tongue and fingers and you'll be so, so much more equipped when your Johnson is ready to do duty again.

    Don't get caught up in the ideal of rock hard dick= manhood. Your lady lying on her back, eyes rolled and writhing because you found the spot that makes her brain short circuit, or you get your tongue going just the right way.... that'll almost make you forget about your dick, and you might find that suddenly it's ready to go again!

    Sex is a confidence game for your head. Don't focus on not performing, it'll make you worse. Find other ways to perform.
     
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  8. Only about 4-5 years
     
  9. Thanks for all the replies fellas!!! I appreciate all the support. Is there anything else I can do to help me out of this flatline? I go to the gym 7 days a week and meditate 10-20 mins per day.
     
  10. Yellowknife

    Yellowknife Fapstronaut

    Count each day as a blessing.

    Flatline = Your Brain is Rewiring. Instead of hurrying it, accept it will take as long as it needs to take.

    Get good with your fingers and tongue. It's a great excuse to learn a new skill. :)
     
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  11. Camelon

    Camelon Fapstronaut

    Mine 15
    So im sure that even 90 days won"t be enough for reboot
    Anyway be patient, don"t worry
    Let"s WAIT & SEE.......
     

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