Day 59 NoFap tomorrow makes 60!!!

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TrulyAmazing

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30 years old and I have always been a HEAVY fapper 10-15 times a day for most of my life out of depression....ever since going on NoFap I have way more confidence in myself, I’m able to fight fire with fire instead of accepting whatever life throws at me! I care a whole lot less about stuff that doesn’t contribute to my overall goals and self progress!! I sleep better, I wake up earlier, I’m less depressed as usual: small but very noticeable. People respect me more, I have a more many stance/physique, deeper voice, able to tell people NO without second guessing, stand up for myself way more, accomplish tasks quicker as I’m not constantly wasting time fapping or watching extremely types of porn!! What NoFap really did was uncover everything I was burying behind fapping and it hits you hard and makes you face those issues!! probably the hardest part about this whole process was facing (still facing) my hidden demons head on like this all at once!! I realized how messed up my life was on top of everything else the world throws at you and it was just a shocking I need to do something quick moment!! with NOFAP I take on each day more alert and present and I am able to assess certain situations better and take action when needed!! Edging and urges were a huge problem The first couple of weeks but have reduced significantly at day 59! I don’t think about porn, and when I do it’s brief but never enough to engage. Whenever I do have an urge (sometimes they are strong) I always tell myself it’s not worth going back to the no confidence, weak minded, doormat of a person I was before and that’s what mainly keeps me from relapsing!! Girls are easier to talk to, men as well as I can look someone in the eye and have way less anxiety when doing so!! if I make a general mistake in public I care way less, it doesn’t completely devastate me like it used to! there’s a whole list of benefits too many to name but it’s definitely worth trying for good and not relapsing!! I plan to go to 90 days with my fists besting my chest the whole way! Wish me luck, and hopefully I inspired someone to keep pushing for greatness!! This is with sex by the way not sure which mode, don’t really care as long as I’m not PMO’ing.
 
TrulyAmazing said:
30 years old and I have always been a HEAVY fapper 10-15 times a day for most of my life out of depression....ever since going on NoFap I have way more confidence in myself, I’m able to fight fire with fire instead of accepting whatever life throws at me! I care a whole lot less about stuff that doesn’t contribute to my overall goals and self progress!! I sleep better, I wake up earlier, I’m less depressed as usual: small but very noticeable. People respect me more, I have a more many stance/physique, deeper voice, able to tell people NO without second guessing, stand up for myself way more, accomplish tasks quicker as I’m not constantly wasting time fapping or watching extremely types of porn!! What NoFap really did was uncover everything I was burying behind fapping and it hits you hard and makes you face those issues!! probably the hardest part about this whole process was facing (still facing) my hidden demons head on like this all at once!! I realized how messed up my life was on top of everything else the world throws at you and it was just a shocking I need to do something quick moment!! with NOFAP I take on each day more alert and present and I am able to assess certain situations better and take action when needed!! Edging and urges were a huge problem The first couple of weeks but have reduced significantly at day 59! I don’t think about porn, and when I do it’s brief but never enough to engage. Whenever I do have an urge (sometimes they are strong) I always tell myself it’s not worth going back to the no confidence, weak minded, doormat of a person I was before and that’s what mainly keeps me from relapsing!! Girls are easier to talk to, men as well as I can look someone in the eye and have way less anxiety when doing so!! if I make a general mistake in public I care way less, it doesn’t completely devastate me like it used to! there’s a whole list of benefits too many to name but it’s definitely worth trying for good and not relapsing!! I plan to go to 90 days with my fists besting my chest the whole way! Wish me luck, and hopefully I inspired someone to keep pushing for greatness!! This is with sex by the way not sure which mode, don’t really care as long as I’m not PMO’ing.
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I am really glad I read your story. It gave me some boost to push harder. I hope you reach your goal, and wishing you all the best.
 
TrulyAmazing said:
30 years old and I have always been a HEAVY fapper 10-15 times a day for most of my life out of depression....ever since going on NoFap I have way more confidence in myself, I’m able to fight fire with fire instead of accepting whatever life throws at me! I care a whole lot less about stuff that doesn’t contribute to my overall goals and self progress!! I sleep better, I wake up earlier, I’m less depressed as usual: small but very noticeable. People respect me more, I have a more many stance/physique, deeper voice, able to tell people NO without second guessing, stand up for myself way more, accomplish tasks quicker as I’m not constantly wasting time fapping or watching extremely types of porn!! What NoFap really did was uncover everything I was burying behind fapping and it hits you hard and makes you face those issues!! probably the hardest part about this whole process was facing (still facing) my hidden demons head on like this all at once!! I realized how messed up my life was on top of everything else the world throws at you and it was just a shocking I need to do something quick moment!! with NOFAP I take on each day more alert and present and I am able to assess certain situations better and take action when needed!! Edging and urges were a huge problem The first couple of weeks but have reduced significantly at day 59! I don’t think about porn, and when I do it’s brief but never enough to engage. Whenever I do have an urge (sometimes they are strong) I always tell myself it’s not worth going back to the no confidence, weak minded, doormat of a person I was before and that’s what mainly keeps me from relapsing!! Girls are easier to talk to, men as well as I can look someone in the eye and have way less anxiety when doing so!! if I make a general mistake in public I care way less, it doesn’t completely devastate me like it used to! there’s a whole list of benefits too many to name but it’s definitely worth trying for good and not relapsing!! I plan to go to 90 days with my fists besting my chest the whole way! Wish me luck, and hopefully I inspired someone to keep pushing for greatness!! This is with sex by the way not sure which mode, don’t really care as long as I’m not PMO’ing.
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Good for you! I'm very glad you have achieved 59 days about to be 60. Thank you for being part of this community.
 
Congratulations man,keep it up.
I have a small question.
The thing is I was on nofap hard mode and I didn't get morning wood in that process.
before nofap I was getting morning wood on daily basis.
I just relapsed because I wanted to check whether everything is okay or not.
Can you tell me what might be the reason?
 
MixerAwersome said:
Congratulations man,keep it up.
I have a small question.
The thing is I was on nofap hard mode and I didn't get morning wood in that process.
before nofap I was getting morning wood on daily basis.
I just relapsed because I wanted to check whether everything is okay or not.
Can you tell me what might be the reason?
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Sometimes when going through the Nofap process you might go through a flatline. A flatline is basically when you have very little sexual desires. This process of going hardmode could cause your manhood to be less sensitive. If you masturbate frequently then your manhood might be more sensitive because it is so used to ejaculating. You should be perfectly fine with getting no morning wood and flatline usually goes away after a while.
 
Farzium said:
Sometimes when going through the Nofap process you might go through a flatline. A flatline is basically when you have very little sexual desires. This process of going hardmode could cause your manhood to be less sensitive. If you masturbate frequently then your manhood might be more sensitive because it is so used to ejaculating. You should be perfectly fine with getting no morning wood and flatline usually goes away after a while.
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thank you man
 
The benefits outweigh what you give up many times over... I was always a doormat and would let people take advantage but now things are so much different. I refuse to go back to the creep I was. Thank for this I needed it today

TrulyAmazing said:
30 years old and I have always been a HEAVY fapper 10-15 times a day for most of my life out of depression....ever since going on NoFap I have way more confidence in myself, I’m able to fight fire with fire instead of accepting whatever life throws at me! I care a whole lot less about stuff that doesn’t contribute to my overall goals and self progress!! I sleep better, I wake up earlier, I’m less depressed as usual: small but very noticeable. People respect me more, I have a more many stance/physique, deeper voice, able to tell people NO without second guessing, stand up for myself way more, accomplish tasks quicker as I’m not constantly wasting time fapping or watching extremely types of porn!! What NoFap really did was uncover everything I was burying behind fapping and it hits you hard and makes you face those issues!! probably the hardest part about this whole process was facing (still facing) my hidden demons head on like this all at once!! I realized how messed up my life was on top of everything else the world throws at you and it was just a shocking I need to do something quick moment!! with NOFAP I take on each day more alert and present and I am able to assess certain situations better and take action when needed!! Edging and urges were a huge problem The first couple of weeks but have reduced significantly at day 59! I don’t think about porn, and when I do it’s brief but never enough to engage. Whenever I do have an urge (sometimes they are strong) I always tell myself it’s not worth going back to the no confidence, weak minded, doormat of a person I was before and that’s what mainly keeps me from relapsing!! Girls are easier to talk to, men as well as I can look someone in the eye and have way less anxiety when doing so!! if I make a general mistake in public I care way less, it doesn’t completely devastate me like it used to! there’s a whole list of benefits too many to name but it’s definitely worth trying for good and not relapsing!! I plan to go to 90 days with my fists besting my chest the whole way! Wish me luck, and hopefully I inspired someone to keep pushing for greatness!! This is with sex by the way not sure which mode, don’t really care as long as I’m not PMO’ing.
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