Day 60 and some questions

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by idek123, May 10, 2018.

  1. idek123

    idek123 Fapstronaut

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    So I have not pm in 60 days; however, I have O with a partner a few times throughout my streak, either bj, handjob, or just dry humping. Maybe 4-5 times....Some people say if you O thats a restart to your timer, is this true?? I never felt like I should... but if thats the case does this mean I have to restart my counter??
    I have seen alot of benefits in nofap.
    -I have more time to do what i want
    -I have more control over my emotions
    -Less depression and anxiety
    -Less and less brainfog
    -More patients
    Those are just few of them.
    I have been in a flatline since day 28, my dick is pretty much lifeless, and only get morning woods or wake up in the middle of a night with a boner, but dont get them through out the day though. One day I got a random borner in class and one later that day, but that is the most I’ve had in one day. How long do you think this flatline would take??
    I do suffer from ED and PE. I know these will take time to heal if they haven’t already, however what can i do to fight these besides from nofap?
    I do kegels and try to eat happy, dont work out but Im try to get into a routine

    -Can I keep my 60 day streak??
    -How long do you think flatline will last??
    -What are ways to fight ED and PE??
     
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  2. Day walker

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    Interesting dilemma - I’m just starting out and feel relations with my wife are within boundaries but maybe that’s why I relapse after a few weeks and need total abstinence for a while -
     
  3. whatrichme

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    expect no timelines for the flatline. It will go naturally.

    Solo O is harmful & meaningless, but if you have to O with your partner, go for it. Perhaps just not everyday. Life is to be enjoyed.
    Let your partner know about your progress in no PMO, loving partners should understand and support your work.
     
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  4. Target365

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    In my opinion sex is okay with your partner if you do it in moderation but you need to understand releasing sperm frequently will also cause those negative effect on your body like feeling anxious while talking to girls or in public, body becomes lethargic, depression, loss of interest in things etc. My understanding is your sperm have something in it which is required by your body at some level. In Hindu religion sperm has been referred to consist ojas which will helps you provide stability in life. You should must read a little about ojas to better understand what I'm trying to tell you here. Sorry for my english if it's little confusing for you to understand. Good luck with you Life bro :)
     
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  5. DucksInARow

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    Exactly, you see the same thing happen on fitness/bodybuilding forums.

    Its often the masculine urge to over control and analyse, which in my opinion is often the problem in the first place. Keep it simple.
     
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  6. Day walker

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    Thank u very much
     
  7. myspirithurt

    myspirithurt Fapstronaut

    Congrats man that’s outstanding! In my opinion O with your partner is fine. But I would steer away from anything that feels like a “quick fix” even if it’s with your partner. For me, the way I feel after a handjob or something from my wife is much different than after regular sex where we actually “make love.” So much of PMO is centered around selfishness and focusing on one’s own pleasure, and we should ensure we aren’t taking that approach in our real life relationships.
     
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  8. Inactive User

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    Dude that is awesome and keep it up!

    No man, the counter is for tracking YOUR personal goals. If you're not trying to abstain from orgasm, then you don't need to reset your counter.

    However, you should probably update it so that it says "Porn and Masturbation," not "Porn, Masturbation, and Orgasm."

    1. Go to "Update Day Counter"

    2. If you remember when you last PM'd, select that date on the calendar. If you don't remember, just count 61 days backwards from today and select that date.

    3. Drag the slider so that it says "Porn and Masturbation" (second notch from the left)

    4. Hit "Submit"
     
  9. idek123

    idek123 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for all of your help, I want to make this a life long journey, and Im glad there are people that show so mush support
     
  10. MarinoBigFan1984

    MarinoBigFan1984 Fapstronaut

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    Anything with a partner I consider ok and not necessary to reset the counter
     
  11. Hank Pym

    Hank Pym Fapstronaut

    Decrease the frequency of S, read few things about sperm retension
    https://guardyoureyes.com/articles/tips-suggestions/item/the-benefits-of-sperm-retentionnofap
    I'm hindu too but still didn't knew about ojas. Thanks i'll do web
    research on ojas.
     
  12. metalshivam01

    metalshivam01 Fapstronaut

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    You need to take control over your sexual desire of course sex feels fuckin good but if day turns into night and you still thinking about how to handle your dick than something is wrong with you homie plus if you keep relasing your semen it will results into more bad effects like less masculinity and low energy but at a bright side you're avoiding porn and masturbation which is definitely good for you.Looking forward,Good Luck
     
  13. I think "O" does count as "OVER" .
     

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