Day 60. Strong Advice. (Important)

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  1. SonicUnleashed

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    I can now confirm after 60 days that the NoFap benefits are real. They're just not as "powerful" as people may tell you (at least not yet(?). More on this later.

    Along the journey you will be faced with unbearable loneliness. Sometimes even incomprehensible. When this happens it's important to stay patient and remember that you're NEVER going back to that dark place you once were ever again. When the urges come, just don't do anything. Just let them be. Don't edge, either, that's useless.

    The benefits are real, but man, if you're doing this to attract women then you will be heavily disappointed. I'm not saying it doesn't work, it does, but don't have that be your focus, otherwise it's never going to work. This is the most important information that I've discovered myself along this journey: You will have A LOT of energy on semen retention... DO NOT waste it on things that are outside of your purpose. Use that energy wisely.

    For example, worrying about girls and conversations. Sure, it's cool to practice speaking to females every once in a while, but honestly, if you don't have your life figured out already why tf are you focusing on girls? Same with social media. See I've realized that even the internet drains our mental energy. Stop watching pointless videos, reading pointless comments, looking at pointless Snapchat and Instagram posts. Otherwise by the end of the day you're going to be tired asf and you're not going to have any energy to do things that you actually need the energy for.

    What I've noticed is that when I'm actually focused, and I mean FOCUSED, on my goals and aspirations, that's when female attraction actually starts to work. It's the most backwards thing, but I'll take the lesson. Just don't waste your energy on stupid shit. Take your cold showers, get in the gym, work out, be on your grind, and stay focused. If you want to achieve a long streak, be prepared to feel like the most lonely person on the planet. Don't cry about it, don't give in, but instead just use that time to become great. Thank you and good night.

     
    Last edited: Dec 6, 2019
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  2. Great post. Needed that today. Thanks.
     
  3. Congrats on 60 days . Thank you for your post
     
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  4. Si bolang

    Si bolang Fapstronaut

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    How do you control the pressure on the first week?
     
  5. SonicUnleashed

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    You literally don't do anything. You might get boners. ok. But just let them pass. Some days it gets BAD, but just try to ignore it, even though it might feel impossible. Because eventually the urges go away on their own with enough time and patience.
     
  6. Si bolang

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    Now I find it very difficult to get motivated to start again due to repeated relapses 1 month ago, even though at the beginning of trying my nofap reached the 35 day line
     
  7. Si bolang

    Si bolang Fapstronaut

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    Now I often recur before reaching 1 week, can you thank motivation encouragement?
     
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  8. SonicUnleashed

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    Well if it makes you feel any better, I was actually the same way. Normally I couldn't even go a week without masturbating at least once. But like I said, you need an unbearable, sometimes even an incomprehensible amount of patience, because it does get better. The benefits actually will keep you motivated the more you see how people start to want to talk to you, and not having any guilt is another great feeling. You just have to be patient. I have a challenge for you. Go a full 60 days. I promise you, you will see progress. The problem is you still stuck at the beginning stages. Try doing a long streak, as lonely and impatient as you might feel, because it will be worth it in the end. Anything is better than porn tho bro. Be proud of yourself for even attempting to be unlike the 99%.
     
  9. Si bolang

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    Alright friend, I'll do the challenge. It's true I'm still trapped in the early stages, very strong urges, very weak motivation. I hope to be able to get through it until this pressure is reduced. Thank you buddy
     
  10. itz_gioc

    itz_gioc Fapstronaut

    Bro lemme give you a hug man. No homo. You and I have similar mindsets man. The wisdom and knowledge you shared is on point! This is how I know you’ve been on this journey, and that your actually resisting the temptation. Very well done!

    Remember to stay consistent. It only gets harder from here. We still have a long way to achieve our goals. Always have faith. Pray to God if you have to because those urges will come. And it will hit you unexpectedly.

    Be a man. We’re here for a reason to do something great! Let’s prove it to ourselves and everyone that we won’t give up.
     
  11. LetsGetStarted

    LetsGetStarted Fapstronaut

    This is it exactly. I was on a 53 day streak. Sadly I fucked it up recently due to personal reasons :( But on my 53rd day I was out clubbing with some friends. 3 girls came up to me on one evening, not vice versa. That literally never happened before! I didn't notice them until they came up to me. And with 2 of them I kissed, I am pretty sure if I did my best, I could have gone home with one of them. (Still a 19 y/o virgin due to PIED symptoms, or at least I had PIED, I got 2 raging boners from kissing while being drunk to the bone).

    My point is: Don't worry about it, the girls will come to you or you will get to the girls because of the balls you grew while on NoFap.

    EDIT: My counter is not right. I haven't reset it. Should be day 2..
     
  12. SonicUnleashed

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    Good luck bro. I also want to add that if you do have a couple of wet dreams (which you will) don't worry about it. The most important thing is that you face the urges head on instead of trying to cope with them. Just let the urges be. Because eventually the brain will just get bored trying and realize there's no point in fantasizing anymore.
     
  13. Si bolang

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    [QUOTE = "SonicUnleashed, posting: 2349164, anggota: 189938"] Semoga beruntung bro. Saya juga ingin menambahkan bahwa jika Anda memang memiliki beberapa mimpi basah (yang Anda akan) jangan khawatir tentang hal itu. Yang paling penting adalah bahwa Anda menghadapi dorongan dari pada bukannya mencoba untuk mengatasinya. Biarkan saja desakannya. Karena pada akhirnya otak akan bosan mencoba dan menyadari bahwa tidak ada gunanya berfantasi lagi. [/ QUOTE]
    Terima kasih teman, saya sangat menghargai balasan dan saran Anda ..
     
  14. helpinghand4all

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    I have a big problem, I can maintain my streak but I can't do my work properly, I get tired studying all day, mostly because I don't go outside, when I go outside I have a lot of energy specially when I talk to people, but staying at home and studying drains me of energy and I start having compulsive thoughts, brain efficiency decreases. Please help.
     
  15. quit@porn

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    Really helpful advice to remain focused.... Is the key.... Great. Man.. Keep going
     
  16. pimp

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    Bro I relapsed around day 120 because i felt so down. Really wasn't worth it at all, but dont worry we didn't lose all of our progress. We have a fundament now :)
     
  17. SonicUnleashed

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    Doing anything that requires brain activity will more often than not decrease your energy, yes. I would say just remember the reason you're studying in the first place... to do something great. Everything else is just a distraction. It's up to you which you want to waste your energy on.
     
  18. SonicUnleashed

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    Relapses can be good imo. The more you do it the more you realize it's never worth it. lol
     

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