Day 70 - Update: ultimate goal reached

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by InfinitePossibilities, Jul 8, 2017.

  1. InfinitePossibilities

    InfinitePossibilities Fapstronaut

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    Dear brothers,

    this is my first thread in the success section, i'm on Day 63 (61 of them in hardmode).

    Sexuality before NoFap:
    Relying solely on PMO for release. Not even thinking about discussing the issue with my wife. Being constantly nervous about the PMO habbit and feeling bad about it. Not able to maintain an erection or o when with my wife.

    Sexuality on Day 60:
    Urges for o get strong. Burning fire inside the body, feeling like i am loosing my mind.

    Sexuality on Day 61:
    Instead of turning to PMO for release, i tell my wife about my desires. While she is not ready for sexual intercourse yet, she uses her hand to give me o. This is the first time since 6 years i have an o not by my own but in contact with my wife. Tangible improvement in confidence and view on life since this day.

    Sexuality on Day 63:

    Being playful in bed, without expectations for o, looking for ways to please her while noticing her bodily reactions. Solid erection troughout the whole time. Having o at the end, feeling great.

    Support for Fapstronauts:

    Please have a look at My Log if you want to know more about the techniques and strategies i use.

    Thank you all for the great support and wise advices. Being part of this community is crucial for my sexual health. The experiences of the past days mean a lot to me. Thank you once again!
     
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  2. I will win

    I will win Fapstronaut

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    Congrats soldier! Keep going!
     
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  3. Buddhabro

    Buddhabro Fapstronaut

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    I'm so very happy for you and your wife! Congratulations! I hope you recover completely and overcome this addiction to PMO.
     
  4. InfinitePossibilities

    InfinitePossibilities Fapstronaut

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    Yes i will! :)
     
  5. TheWarrant

    TheWarrant Fapstronaut

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    Great post, thank you for the motivation. Porn is a disaster for a male sexual health. You have inspired me today.
     
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  6. InfinitePossibilities

    InfinitePossibilities Fapstronaut

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  7. TheWarrant

    TheWarrant Fapstronaut

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    Congratulations - that's great news and only in 70 days. May I ask, how old are you? I hope that my PIED erectile dysfunction will be cured by this change in my lifestyle.

    I'm only 22, and enjoyed great sex from the ages of 16-20. The problems set in from the age of 20-22 - where I didn't have regular sex and started consuming porn and masturbating too much.
     
  8. InfinitePossibilities

    InfinitePossibilities Fapstronaut

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    I'm 35.

    What helped me most during this 70 days and to get healthy:
    • The Presence Process
    • Mantrameditation
    • Medication for ADD
    • Talks with my wife
    • Talks with a very good friend
    • Psychotherapy
    • EMDR Therapy
    • K9 Webfilter
     
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  9. Someguy32

    Someguy32 Fapstronaut

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    Congratulations mate! A demonstration of what is possible with will power, application and support.
     
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