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Dead Dick in Relationship

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Ufesa12, Jul 16, 2019.

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  1. Jul 16, 2019 #1
    Ufesa12

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    Hello, I started nofap 15 days ago. I have a girlfriend and a reason I started nofap was because sometimes my erection weren't to hard and I started thinking it was because of PIED, I normally masturbated to porn like 1 or 2 times a day. But few days ago I started to loose my morning wood and now I can't get an erection while making out with her. Is this some kind of side effect? It will disappear or I have to give up on sex during my entire reboot?
    Thanks in advance
     
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  2. Jul 16, 2019 #2
    IzzyIt’sMe

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    Just anecdotal evidence, but nofap has the side effect of flatlines. And this dead dick syndrome can last weeks or even months. It’s a part of the healing process but you and your girlfriend should be aware of this. If this is a deal breaker for you or your girlfriend, then you can try masturbating once per week (no porn and no fantasy, just physical stimulation) in order to keep your libido up and lower the odds of having a flatline.
     
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  3. Jul 16, 2019 #3
    Ufesa12

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    Can I lower the odds of having flatline if is my girlfriend masturbating me? Is edging a possible solution to get my libido up?
     
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  4. Jul 16, 2019 #4
    IzzyIt’sMe

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    Don’t edge! This is potentially worse than masturbation. And also I don’t think it’ll help your flatlines anyway. You can certainly have you GF masturbate you though, or even masturbate in front of her, maybe while she handles herself
     
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  5. Jul 17, 2019 #5
    Ufesa12

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    This kinda is getting me frustrated because I do want to have sex with my girlfriend but my dick is getting softer, I am 28 years old, if i touch myself I can get a erection and if I watch porn I know I can orgarms but somehow with a girl I can get it up. Perhaps I devoleping some kind of performance anxiety?
     
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  6. Jul 18, 2019 #6
    augusto.kemp

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    Same here bro, 25 years, just created my nofap account,
    I often get more aroused by a laptop screen then to my SO :( this sucks!!
    Hope we can find a way around this.
     
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  7. Jul 21, 2019 #7
    IzzyIt’sMe

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    If you’re having ED issues I recommend Kegel exercises to go along with NoFap. They really help out and I’m talking from experience.
     
    IzzyIt’sMe, Jul 21, 2019
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