Dead dick, no libido, nothing

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by MikeSilva, Nov 23, 2019.

  1. MikeSilva

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    Hey brothers, today is day 146 on Nofap which means no porn and no masturbation. Up to two weeks ago I was having good sex with my girlfriend. Two weeks ago we even did it twice in one evening. But now, my penis looks like a dead zombie. It does not get hard and when it does, it goes flacid very quick. I do not get morning wood now. Is this the flatline? I already went through one flatline, so is it possible one can get mulitple flatlines during his journey?

    Thank you brothers.
     
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  2. Deadmemories

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    on day 146 I don't really think the porn is the problem....
     
  3. Similar symptoms here...in and out of flatline. Sometimes I have great sex with raging boners, other times my penis looks like a shrivelled cashew nut!

    Gotta sit it out I guess...
     
  4. Fenix Rising

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    Yes, multiple flatlines are common in people with serious addiction problem. I'd say there isn't one recovery paths that fits all, because everyone of us has a different PMO abuse history (I had problems with almost daily (P)MO binges for 25 years /38yo). I browsed back through my daily "monkmode" journal and this is what I found out (I kept accurate records for the first 6 months of my current streak):

    day:
    0-13 -> mostly flatline (3 weak morning woods)
    14-44 -> flatline (1 morning wood)
    45-84 -> occasional urges (13 days of morning woods)
    85-120 -> occasional urges (14 morning woods)
    121-150 -> flatline (1 morning woods)
    150 - 189 -> occasional urges (17 morning woods)

    As you can see I experienced multiple flatlines during first half year of recovery but you can notice gradual improvement.
     
  5. MikeSilva

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    What do you mean? You think it is not a flatline?
     
  6. MikeSilva

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    Yes I understand, thank you, mulitple flatlines is a common phenomenon I guess
     
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  7. MikeSilva

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    I think so too. Thank you
     
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  8. Deadmemories

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    just sounds strange after a full reboot you would still be experiencing pmo withdrawal. I could be wrong, but I would outrule all other variables in your life that could be affecting your sexual health first.
     
  9. svance421

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    You have to keep in mind that not everyone’s full reboot takes the same amount of time. He may not be fully rebooted yet
     
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  10. MikeSilva

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    Already did and tests came out fine
     
  11. MikeSilva

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    On day 40 or so I had amazing sex with a full erection and now not, so I do not think that other aspects are at stake here.... maybe a little performance anxiety or something
     
  12. Addo

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    great reading this, I am day 25 clean hard mode. and no libido. no morning wood and no desire at all. I decided to browse through and now i know its normal. Withdrawal symptoms are real. I am always tired and sleepy. i thought by now all these should be over. well after dedicating 15 years of my life to PMO, i guess i will take like 18 months to fully reboot. to those starting, do not quit, we will get there
     
  13. MikeSilva

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    Hahaha yes but you know what frustrates me, I was out of the flatline and had good sex with my girl XD. This is like the third or fourth large flatline lol.... just have to wait it out I guess.
     
  14. I've had this. Trust me, it'll get worse with constant head pressure, tingling and floating dizziness if you keep on relapsing.
     
  15. Discouraged

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    during rut season of a buck, for two weeks his body produces more testosterone than in entire rest of the year, he can fuck all day long for 2 weeks. this is to time birth of the children in the spring when chance of survival is greatest.

    which creates a whole slew of metaphysical questions. how does the buck's body know to do this? how does the buck think to do this?

    the thing is a buck is living a seriously suck life, survival is the only basic amusement, no video games, no tv, he's out there in the cold winter freezing his socks off. that is what is creating his core psyche, he's thinking 'holy shit, it is so fucking cold i am going to die' every winter. he doesn't think about sex, he thinks about food, shelter, warmth.
     
  16. svance421

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    For sure. I think PIED and Performance anxiety go hand in hand. There a package deal a lot of the time. I know they are for me. It was so embarrassing not being able to get hard enough for penetration that I traumatized me. Now when I’m with a new girl I get so scared and worried it’s going to happen that I can’t get in the right headspace and it will make it happen again I feel like.
     
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  17. MikeSilva

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    This is so true.... I know man, I think next year in 2020 when I am still in this position that I will go seek help by a psychologist or sexologist for my performance anxiett. No porn and no masturbation is still a no go, forever.
     
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  18. Priceless

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    I've had this. It's seriously no joke. I've had times where my duck refused to go down I'm not joking and other times where it either refuses to go up or goes up for a bit and then just drops and the worse is I never know when it's gonna happen. What I've found helps is cardio exercise and visualisation.
     
  19. Addo

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    Hahahahaa, I am surprised at myself, weak erection together with a lot of wet dreams. No morning woods as usual. Most at times it looks dead, I mean very dead. the good news is, I would have been worried if not for nofap educating me on what to expect as I go through this journey. Is it a nice experience?? No, certainly not but I am happy because I know I am on the right path
     
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  20. MikeSilva

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    Little update: think I am coming out of this flatline now, last thursday GF gave me a blowjob, stayed hard the full time and orgasm! Last night (saturday night) got a boner and decided to penetrate... had sex and came ! So I think the flatline is diminishing and libido starts returning but I will take it easy next week
     
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