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Dead Dick, Random Erection, and Random Fantasy. What happened to me?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by BangJul, May 18, 2022.

  1. BangJul

    BangJul Fapstronaut

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    This is my 63 Days on Nofap, im suffering and confused with my nofap Progression. I've tried so hard to stay away from porn, masturbation, orgasm, and any fantasy. But the Fantasy come accidentally. I also confused about my dick. Sometimes he dies when my mind craving for porn. Sometimes i got an erection when i didn't want it.

    Sometimes a got a hard morning Wood, and sometimes a dont get any morning wood. What just happen to me, is this the phase towards the Flatline phase?

    And how do I fight random fantasies that come along? this really stresses me out
     
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  2. mentorr

    mentorr Fapstronaut

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    The fantasies are going to bombard you, it is part of the process and unfortunately there is no way around it. But when they do come to you, it shows that you are on the right track.

    When you experience a fantasy, don't fight it. Let it come up, acknowledge the fantasy but do not focus on it. When you focus on the fantasy you provide it with energy and allow it to grow stronger. Just see the fantasy and say "ok there is a fantasy in my mind" then without hesitation let it go and continue with your day. Each time you successfully acknowledge and then release a fantasy in your mind, your create more willpower for the next time it happens.

    Don't worry about dead dick, erections etc. - for now focus on staying away from PMO + fantasy.
     
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  3. BangJul

    BangJul Fapstronaut

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    Well, i got it!

    So that means all I have to do now is "accept" my current situation, stay away from any PMO and any sexual Triggers

    Thank you very much! It help me a lot!
     
  4. mentorr

    mentorr Fapstronaut

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    Maybe even go as far as to embrace your situation. You will be 10x better when you come out of the other side.

    63 days is solid progress too - keep going.
     
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