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Dealing with a sketchy girl

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Yung pants, Nov 5, 2019.

  1. Nov 5, 2019 #1
    Yung pants

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    Soooo I am new to NoFap and just started my journey. However just passed weekend within my first weekend of NoFap I decided to go out for some drinks with a girl who I have known for a while but never really hung out with a lot. We were drinking at this bar we are both familiar with and got to chatting she then told me how she was trying to fuck the bartender which made me think that I hit a dead end and was not getting anywhere with this girl. However we got a bit inebriated and ended back at my house which then led to oral sex. It seemed like we were vibing quite well but later on in the night I extended an invite to her to stay over my house she seemed into it however she told me her parents would like her home as she was leaving calling the Uber I saw that it costed 32$ which is unusual bc ik how close she lives to me... Long story short I later found out she went to the bartenders house after we had hooked up / had oral sex and had slept there.However just days after and she still continued to hit me up asking about my schedule for the rest of the week and if we can meet up again saying she likes hanging out with me alone and blah blah blah. I was a little confused when I had found out about her ditching out on me for another guy after giving me head also while she was on her period ... Or at least what she told me. Thoughts ?
     
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  2. Nov 5, 2019 #2
    Infrasapiens

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    Yes. Get away from her.
     
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  3. Nov 5, 2019 #3
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    Frankly, I'd also slow a lot down and look in the mirror. You should be disgusted she hooked up with another man on the SAME night. In my current state, I'd have a hard time even looking at a woman (or man) so loose with her morals and body.

    Imagine you reversed the situation. You went to visit a female bartender after a similar visit with her, you KNOW how angry she'd be with you. Sometimes women viscerally understand what men train themselves to ignore "she's just having fun bro'." No, she's being disgusting, using you, and probably lives with STIs. Be grossed out.

    I'm not saying you need to be angry, there's no need for immaturity, but you need to feel a revulsion for someone who spreads her (or his) body around in that fashion. If you do not feel disgusted you should work on rebooting from ALL contact until you've regained a more normal disgust response.
     
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  4. Nov 5, 2019 #4
    onceaking

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    You should probably get tested for STD's... You never know you may have caught something. I suppose that's the good thing about porn - it doesn't give you STD's.
     
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