Hey all
I'd like to open an discussion about dealing with bullies & negative people. Quite often now days bullying is not physical but more emotional and social.
A recent situation was I have a so-called friend and when we are alone he is fine but in a large group setting he becomes an arse and always tries to make jokes at my expense making me loose value for my self and to the people in the group and sometimes other people join in. Recently he started again and I snapped back without getting angry and we just got in a constant match where we was going back and forth which I didn’t really like but i felt better than allowing him take the piss out of me.
it would be easy to get extremely aggressive or violent in these but that i seen often does more harm than good
I notice with NoFap i'm realising these microaggressions and calling people out for them rather than letting them slide and let things build up
Do you guys have any similar situations and advice?
I'd like to open an discussion about dealing with bullies & negative people. Quite often now days bullying is not physical but more emotional and social.
A recent situation was I have a so-called friend and when we are alone he is fine but in a large group setting he becomes an arse and always tries to make jokes at my expense making me loose value for my self and to the people in the group and sometimes other people join in. Recently he started again and I snapped back without getting angry and we just got in a constant match where we was going back and forth which I didn’t really like but i felt better than allowing him take the piss out of me.
it would be easy to get extremely aggressive or violent in these but that i seen often does more harm than good
I notice with NoFap i'm realising these microaggressions and calling people out for them rather than letting them slide and let things build up
Do you guys have any similar situations and advice?