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Dealing with sexual opportunities while on nofap.. yes/no

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Mr. R, Jun 25, 2021.

  1. Mr. R

    Mr. R Fapstronaut
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    If you have a nice streak going already and you get a opportunity for sex with something 6.5 out of a 10 girl. Would you take it or rather pass it and use that sexual energy for something useful.

    So I matched with this girl on tinder, I have tinder because of my small social circle.
    But it never have happened before, out of couple of years I've been there, that a girl is hugely into me and wrote to me 2 days later that she wants to have sex with me. I don't think that i could be in a relationship with her so it's just plain friends with benefits thing and spending time and some dating, and she lives like 45 km away from me.

    But since I have a history with PIED and PE, I get some thoughts and worries that after so many months of no PMO, I may have trouble with PE, so the sex would be very short and awkward at first.

    I found myself thinking: yeah, sex would be great but it's kinda meaningless humping with someone I don't have a lot of interest in and waste my energy. I want sex to be more special with a girl who is beautiful inside and out. And I really want to strive over 200 days with no PMO.

    Have you ever thought similar thoughts?
    Not really wanting hookups with a woman who's not my taste but a real emotional and intimate connection since porn has took it all away for all those years and those hookups seems like same as masturbating with her body.
     
  2. p1n1983

    p1n1983 Fapstronaut

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    I normally date woman that I know that I'm going to have a good time with them and sex is always a bonus at the end of the nigth. I'm not that into having sex with a woman and leave like it was just a glorified fap. There are plenty of guys that instead of fapping they just call a woman to have fun for an hour or two. There are other guys that only date girlfriend material only and pospone sex for a couple of date or even marriage.
    If you feel this way.. then I recommend you to no hook up with this girl. Maybe you can go out with her to have fun and if you connect in some way then you can go back to her place and have fun indoors.
     
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