Hi, I haven't been on here in a couple of days as my relationship with my SO has been going great but we hit a bump last night. Warning reading further may cause triggers. Whilst i was recieving oral i was holding the base of my penis and masturbating slowly whilst receiving also, I let go and SO continued but I took back control a few seconds later as the sensation was not the same, I O'd and after I was told I was death gripping. I have always struggled to O through oral alone and my SO always wanted to please me that way. I did not see what we did as a problem but she has and is cold to me again. I want to make it right but not sure how to talk to her about it. Advice please.