Declining Libido ?

andrewz

Fapstronaut
It took me sometime to realize that its actually an addiction. I've been watching & collecting porn since 2000. I was 24yo & it was so much fun. Gradually high speed internet came in & it helped me fill number of big sized hdd one after another. Even i wasn't able to watch everything that i was downloading but still finding a new porn was good reason to enjoy PMO. I always enjoyed porn having huge database, just browsing through it day & night was so addictive. This kept on going but i wasn't having a real life sex until 2009 though i wanted desperately from my side but things were not happening. Post that things changed & along with pornography i was heavily into sex with my gf & hookers. Slowly i lost interest in my gf & just enjoyed porn & hookers. Just like porn having new babe twice a week became an addiction and of course 6-7 hours of porn everyday.

It went on from 2012 till 2015 & then there was a turning point when i first realized that there's something more you require apart from all tangible sexual resources to enjoy sex which is libido, and it started declining, i could clearly see it. Things were not like before, i started masturbating less & retaining my semen so that i can get horny. Earlier touching a girl could bring me a good hard erection within 20 seconds & up to 15 minutes of good hardcore session but then things weren't like that anymore. I started facing difficult to sustain an erection. ED, low libido & PE were happening simultaneously.


Main Query Follows :

Since 2015, now after an year & half I have come to a point where my libido has touched the lowest point ever. Even with NoFap i'm not having a similar desire where you feel something's burning inside. At times when i feel like having sex i don't get an erection at all while performing but at times when i'm watching porn i do get hard erections while it takes few minutes. Now day by day my libido is declining & life seems so dull. I haven't yet tried nofap resolution. I first wanted to put my story across this community so that i can get some good effective advice based on experiences & reviews. Guys please suggest something which can do wonders or at least can bring me my libido back. Thanks
 
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Reboot bro. I'm on day 24 and I finally am started to get that tingly, light-headed, vein pulsing feeling back. Try no PMO or hookers for 90 days and see what happens. You're addicted, and you need to change.
 
Thanks for showing your concern bro.

Ya i'll go for reboot thing but have few questions before that. During reboot what are the things that i need to be abstained from. I mean there's a mental stimulation that keeps going when your mind is free, though its not giving me that kind of high anymore & this thing is frustrating me, i'm missing that burning within sensation & pleasure. Do i need to get rid of those fantasy visuals too, whatever little is left. And am i allowed to masturbate once in a week without porn or much of stimulation just to make my body feel light.?
 
Thanks for showing your concern bro.

Ya i'll go for reboot thing but have few questions before that. During reboot what are the things that i need to be abstained from. I mean there's a mental stimulation that keeps going when your mind is free, though its not giving me that kind of high anymore & this thing is frustrating me, i'm missing that burning within sensation & pleasure. Do i need to get rid of those fantasy visuals too, whatever little is left. And am i allowed to masturbate once in a week without porn or much of stimulation just to make my body feel light.?
I'd give up M for 90 days with no porn or orgasms. After that, I would not ever watch porn again and masturbate lightly with lotion once a week or less... or never again. Just like most alcoholics or heroin go completely sober, you probably should too. You're addicted and you need to quit. The frustration is expected but should pass. You can think about sex and girls and stuff, but try to block it out your best as possible. As humans, I'm pretty sure it's impossible to completely go asexual if you weren't born that way. Good luck on your journey.
 
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