Definitely harder than I thought.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Scottyboy860, Sep 2, 2017.

  1. Scottyboy860

    Scottyboy860 Fapstronaut

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    So I'm new here. Friend of mine referred me here. I'm having issues because dropping porn wasn't THAT difficult, but dropping sexts and nudie pictures, that's hard. I also deleted all of my Instagram hoes because that shit really ruined every woman I would meet.

    Not really sure how to cut off the nudie pics and not effect relationships.
     
  2. Chudmeister

    Chudmeister Fapstronaut

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    You don't want a toxic relationship in your life, maybe explain to these girls that you are trying to stop all this. I had a problem with sexting as well, your mind tells you that you want it. But you have to be strong. I've been here 2 and a half weeks and the people here help, I started a few conversations on here just to talk.
     
  3. Scottyboy860

    Scottyboy860 Fapstronaut

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    I tried explaining and they just think I'm a weirdo lol and continue on. These are tricky waters to navigate
     
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  4. Runtilmylegsdropoff

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    Snapchat, Instagram are almost as bad as porn. They have the novel, perfect poses and shots that trick people in a similar way as porn.
     
  5. Scottyboy860

    Scottyboy860 Fapstronaut

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    Man the odds are starting to get stacked! Lol. I've been ignoring everybody all day and just ripping my harley keeping myself occupied, because honestly tearing down back country roads are way more fun and productive haha. So far so good
     
  6. Bi-Curious George

    Bi-Curious George New Fapstronaut

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    I could kill for a bike; it's the perfect weather right now where I'm at.
     
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  7. Bi-Curious George

    Bi-Curious George New Fapstronaut

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    That made me think of this:
     
  8. Scottyboy860

    Scottyboy860 Fapstronaut

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    It was a little chilly up here in CT this morning. But a hoodie and jeans and I was good from 10-3. It was perfect. I love fall season it's great riding weather, plus I feel better wearing all my gear
     
  9. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    Sexting is your porn. Not everyone has the same form of porn addiction.

    The enemy is here to steal, kill and destroy. Check out In Case You Didn't Know for strategies and tips which may help you along your journey.
     
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  10. Hello you

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    Additionally, the key is not just to stop something but replace it with something else. I've learned to workout or run more. The endorphins it releases help promote a healthy feeling. Just gotta be careful because the more you workout the better you look then you want to send pics or whatever. When you get the urge to pick up your phone, call a friend or relative. Try keeping in contact the old fashioned way, talking lol. Then your rewire your brain by telling it that the phone is for something good...to call grandma and not used for something bad. Hope that helps.
     
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  11. Scottyboy860

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    I think I actually created a bigger problem. Got rid of porn, started sexting, now I'm "interacting" with these women constantly. And now I'm meeting them in person. I've "met" 3 last week, and I'm meeting 5 this weekend. And that's only planned.
     
  12. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    If you've planned on meeting 5 this weekend, you can just as easily plan on un-meeting 5 this weekend.
     

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