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Delayed ejaculation success stories

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Xevip, Oct 15, 2017.

  1. Xevip

    Xevip Fapstronaut

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    Hi I see that very little on success stories is being discussed here about DE (Delayed ejaculation). Maybe those who can recovered from DE could throw their results.
    On a personal front, I would consider successful recovery from DE: 1) when one can Ejaculate inside V easily withing 15-20 mins 2) Achieving ejaculation is a normal/regular task..not just once or twice 3) Results are long lasting with minimal or no failure and better if its been more than 8-12 months after Nofap and still results are good

    My story: Suffered from Death Grip, intermittent orgasm inside V after 30 days of NoFap. Still a long way to go for successful recovery. Its been more than 80 days without self masturbation (My GF gave me hand job on 40th day, since then I reset my counter..so I consider myself 30 days free).
     
  2. I've had pretty much total success with this. I was, I would say, around 50/50 as to whether I could ejaculate inside my SO. Stopped watching open and masturbating, and the improvement had been palpable. Some notes:

    - the problem is exacerbated by anxiety about it. I liken it to not being able to urinate around other people at the urinal. Anyway, for a period we created a no pressure atmosphere. Sex would be nice, and if I came, great, and if not we could still appreciate it.
    - No manual or oral stimulation to achieve orgasm (fine in foreplay). The way I figured, if I'm giving up all other avenues to orgasm, my body will eventually take what it can get, for lack of a better phrase.
    - giving up PMO led to greater emotional intimacy, not thinking about porn or fantasies. This greatly improved sex, which had its benefits for DE.

    Hope this is useful. Benefits we seen within weeks, and I would say after around 3 months it was a non-existent issue. I will still struggle to achieve in some situations - morning sex for example. But I think that's just me being someone who takes a very long time to wake up, so I'm horny long before I am awake enough to do anything about it.
     
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