Delayed Ejaculation

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Davyfreedom, Mar 2, 2020.

  1. Davyfreedom

    Davyfreedom Fapstronaut

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    I'm currently doing no pmo and am at 40 days. It's really paying off and I'm seeing many benefits, but I have delayed ejaculation. I can get hard, but sex isn't enough for me to ejaculate. If I continue to do no pmo will it eventually allow me to ejaculate during sex?
     
    Last edited: Mar 5, 2020
  2. Davyfreedom

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    An update for anyone who's curious, it was the condom's fault.
     
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  3. For me, DE got easier after abstaining from PMO for a while. Even to the point that I got back control of when to ejaculate.

    It's just about breaking the link to porn and replacing it with a link to your sexual partner.

    Good luck!
     
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  4. Davyfreedom

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    Thanks @MrVaughn :) You as well!
     
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  5. wyjebane

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    hi, your penis is numb or the sensivity is just fine?
     
  6. There's less sensation than when I use my hand, if that's what you mean?
     
  7. Davyfreedom

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    Since I have been doing pmo for such a long time I believe it has numbed the nerves a little bit.
     
  8. Davyfreedom

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    Yes that is correct. But I still like the feeling of sex. Having a condom makes it more difficult to orgasm though.
     
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  9. kevinjeter

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    This been my problem I can rarely cum during sex I have to force it out and think of fantasy’s or the girl has to have huge tits and I focus on them bouncing and I never came from head anyone had this and fixed it .?
     
  10. heroesroses

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    I've had this for most of my life, Can't cum during sex for the most part, Only maybe like 3/4 times have I been able lifetime. Nearly always with the same girl because she was grinding in a certain position and tight in general. I would guess Its from the excessive PMO and being too use to my own hand/grip as I'm able to cum with my own hand no problem. There also might be a bit of performance anxiety causing it also I'm not sure. Can anyone relate or give some insight into this???
     
  11. kevinjeter

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    Me too man it’s bad only girl I’m basically able to cum from is this gross single mom that’s fat and lives in a trailer but she has huge tits
     
  12. heroesroses

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    Ya kinda similar I can only really cum when shes on top in cowgirl and is grind in certain position and even then its pretty tough to cum, It sucks cause the girl feels like shit that she can't make you cum or that there's something wrong with you. I'm guessing its just desensitization from excessive PMO and porn induced also as I've to think of porn while I'm wanking myself while with a girl to finish. I'm hoping abstinence from PMO will help with this as well as PIED.
     
  13. kevinjeter

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    Same here dude I’ll be thinking about other girls or porn to help finnish
     

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