Depressed and lonely (no friends)

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by margun, Jun 8, 2019.

  1. nmyr

    nmyr Fapstronaut

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    man, i just like you , i have no friends at all ,
    i would love to talk to you and be a friend , talk to me whenever you want .
     
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  2. Ecoman

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    I used to struggle with having no friends throughout school because I was painfully shy (I had social anxiety disorder) and I was introverted. Fortunately, at 32, I've managed to make a few close friends, not a lot, but I definitely feel fulfilled now. For me, technology became the best thing to happen to my social anxiety. I was able to meet people locally online through geospatial apps, which is more comfortable for me to initiate conversations and then eventual meet up. Not sure how it is for straight people, but I am gay and there's more than a couple geospatial apps available to chat with locals...sure there are those on there looking for hookups but there are also people in the same boat who are open to friends and who experience loneliness. Assuming you're straight, I am sure you can find something similar. Also, as you get older and get out into the working world, you'll meet people there, too. One of my best friends is someone I met at a company I worked for 8 years ago and we still text daily and hangout every once and a while. I am also interested in the environment and started getting involved in environmental groups locally and have met great people in the community that way. Just follow your interests and you'll inevitably meet people who share those interests and increase your chances of making friends, without even trying. At 19, I felt very alone but as you continue to put yourself into different experiences and situations in life, you'll likely make friends. Best of luck :)
     
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  3. Adheel123

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    In all honesty i have no friends either all the people i used to be close to have all turned their back on me and sont call me or text me anymore, i think the depression and loniless has made my adfiction for porn stronger
     
  4. nmyr

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    Of sure , it makes me too
     
  5. skull67

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    bro,teri age kya ha? what do you do, i am 26 and suffering from this disease called porn
     
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  6. Dhruva_

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    I am 24 yrs old. Basically porn meri problem hai hi nahi. I have been addicted to reading erotic stories
     
  7. skull67

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    i have also been reading erotic stories,but usme beyond a point jyada maza nae aata to porn zindabaad, kya kar rha aaj kal?
     
  8. Dhruva_

    Dhruva_ Fapstronaut

    Matalab tumne chhori nahi hai dekhna :-(
    Abhi Mai bank po SSC ki preparing kar rha hu
     
  9. SirErnest

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    Yeah you need to get away from that computer more-walking, jogging and cycling are a good start, especially if you are alone at the weekend.
    If you get one new positive habit, you can then start another one when you're ready.
    Don't aim to fix everything, aim to take one step at a time.
    And no wanking or pornography!
     
  10. Heinz_ff

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    Well hello from Indonesia. My hobby is gaming too. So, which kind of games you had play?
     
  11. skull67

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    obviously nae choda ha....counter 0 h mera.....beech beech ma dikkat ho jati ha, but b stories rarely padhta hu...all the best bhai for your bank exams, kuch guidance chahiye career ki to puch lena
     
  12. margun

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    A lot different games on both pc and ps4. What about you?
     
  13. bluemax4

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    @margun

    Hi Margun, I'm from England here. Struggling with depression/loneliness myself at the moment and going to give this another shot. How are you getting on so far?
     
  14. margun

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    Shit at the moment. Made it 5 days and are now back on scratch
     
  15. bluemax4

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    At least you got 5 days in. May feel like shit now but you can learn what triggered you and use the pain you feel to motivate you to do better next time. I'm only on my first day, lets do this together
     
  16. margun

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    Yeah dude, lets do it. Care to tell be your story?
     
  17. bluemax4

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    @margun Sure, I'm 27 and have been attempting NoFap for the last 4 years. I've always struggled with it, I have a lot of self hate which usually results in me sabotaging good things. I'm now going to give this a serious go, I'm going to see a therapist to help me work through my issues, as well as going to stay at my mums so I'm around other people. I believe this can be life changing, hopefully we can all stick through this together.

    What caused you to relapse ?
     
  18. margun

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    I dont know really. I Just feel hopeless. I miss my gf so damn much. She lives in Brasil and had to leave after spending 3 months with me. My loneliness kills me and makes me relaps
     
  19. bluemax4

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    Sounds like you need to have a plan for when you feel tempted. You need to have things you can do that will take your mind off PMO
     
  20. margun

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    I klow. But that is really hard when you are depressed and sad all the time. I feel like i lack meaning in life. I have no idea whst will make me happy
     

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