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Depressed due to dream about old crush?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by WhyNotStop, Jun 29, 2018.

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  1. Jun 29, 2018 #1
    WhyNotStop

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    So last night I had a pretty bad relapse which ended at around 4am. This morning I woke up to a wet dream type of dream about my crush. In the dream It was flirty between me and her at first but then she just left me and was nowhere to be found afterward. Now keep in mind... This was one of my hardest crushes but I haven't seen this girl in over two years ever since she left for the army. I was about this get with this girl but my awkward and unconfident behavior caused her to ignore me and instead begin to date another guy. The porn which I saw last night wasn't even close to my crush. Can this dream be a representation of my failure with her? if so why now? I'm feeling pretty depressed because of this because If it wasn't for porn I could've easily had this girl as we would video chat almost everyday. I need answers please I feel lost.
     
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  2. Jun 30, 2018 #2
    r8js

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    Same story here. Addicted mind making it difficult to understand true feeling of love also.
     
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  3. Jun 30, 2018 #3
    WhyNotStop

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    Yea its kinda like I want to feel real love... I want a real relationship but porn is destroying all of that. That's what my dream was interpreting... That if I keep watching porn I'll never feel the feeling of real love.
     
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  4. Jun 30, 2018 #4
    Carrotman

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    Well... Look at it this way. If she is meant for you, it will happen. I know how it feels to have a huge crush on a girl. Heck, I had a crush (big time or probably obsessed) on a girl for 5 years. I never had the courage to talk to her and would talk about her and not do anything. Fast forward years later, she got a boyfriend and I found another that's amazing to me. Point is this, crushes sometimes will leave you crushed. So the answer to your question is.... It's all in your head Mon! Don't repeat scenario about what happened, instead think about your fight with PMO! You sir are a hero who teams up with more superheroes to fight off a threat that's killing our confidence! Your crush don't know it. But you... You are a hero!!! Look forward and reach your goal! I hope this helps!
    Stay strong and eat your veggies!!!
     
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  5. Jul 3, 2018 #5
    Ypow

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    renew your mind.
    be in present moment.
    and practice this.
    practice bro, if you really want to change in your life.
    trust me,these two things can change your life.
     
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  6. Jul 3, 2018 #6
    Seven_

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    Dont worry I also had some flashbacks to the good old days in like the 2nd week of my reboot and they brought me in flatline I think
     
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