Desensitivity to women by porn of transsexuals / sex with transsexuals.

If you say it like that, and if you're sure about what you say, then I would answer that you're just looking for the easiest way to get wild sex. Man and transwomen are more likely to go to bed and have sex then women. This just how guys are.
You can find those "dirty" girls as well, just have to look. You need a wild type of woman, an earthquake.
If you want a serious relationship, then you have to rise the hierarchy so you can choose the woman that you want.
If you can't master No-orgasm, at least start with "No Porn, no masturbation, no transwomen" and stick to it. If you get enough sex and your interest in transwomen decreases, than it's all good.
If it still is there, try no Orgasm in addition. Do it!
Women don't want guys who cannot keep their pants closed, there is nothing heroic about not being able to control our urges.

 

"Third gender" people have been around forever, in every culture. It is not as you say.

 

exactly. today with technology and surgeries, some think transgendered people are a new thing, but they've been around throughout history. they were just a lot more rare than they are today. and hermaphrodites were even rarer. TS is probably the only 3rd gender id agree on, compared to all the other 56 genders they're pushing down our throats nowadays...

 

I wouldn't say its set in stone , watching obscene amounts of porn over the years including depression can desensitize you to what had aroused you all your life, if you've been in a relationship with females and fallen in love you are straight , read yourbrainonporn, you can fuck your brain up by watching too much and can desensitize you to real women for a while until you refrain and build relationships again and depression especially if your failing at relationships can build a mental wall, stumble upon transgendered person porn , something extremely novel and your level of arousal is through the roof again, you sound like you need to avoid it for good and return to normal, if you could see yourself dating a transgendered person and falling in love and them a ls a sexual partner over women then possibly , if it's literally just porn addiction and what is rated above then just stop watching porn. You've warped your head with what you've out into it , now you need time away to recover from it

 

I also had a trans fetish for a long time and had sex with a few trans. I also had the same experience. Was easy to get hard with a trans. However, the sex was ultimately not satisfying and I felt no connection. In fact, I realised a lot of trans people were also screwed up and very confused and needy people. It made me question whether this was something innate or whether it was a conditioned response in me. I'm in my 40s and only got into trans porn about 10 years ago when it became quite common on the net. That told me that it wasn't something innate in me, but rather that I'd been conditioned. Even before I started nofap, about a year ago I started to avoid trans porn and only look at straight porn. Slowly my interest in trans porn decreased and now I find I'm not that interested in it. I might still be tempted, but my temptation now is to go to straight porn first. When you're in the fog of being used to trans or gay porn, you may have convinced yourself that it's normal and that maybe you're gay, etc. But if you avoid it for a whole you'll see that it was all just an illusion that your mind had created. Stay strong. You will see that it's not something innate.

 

min your case from what I’ve read about your experience, trans woman might not be your problem at all. I think it’s the idea of trans woman being seen negatively and that your attraction is seen as a fetish. Truthfully it’s not a fetish if a person looks like a woman in every way and your are attracted to them as a straight man, then you are 100% normal. I think you should do nofap and restrict from sex let your mind reset. And when you have some time under your belt then go out and experiment with whoever sparks your fancy. So many of these people are going to say their way is the only way, but I do t want to leave that impression because at the end of the day you have to figure out yourself. You are unique from other men in that you don’t feel guilt or shame, which is the mark of a true fetish. If at the end of the day the thought of you having ever done anything with a trans woman makes you feel negative, chances are it’s a fetish. But if you’re ok with it, these guys will try and say you became desensitized to the experience, but you probably need to have some time to figure out what’s right for you. Take some months off of anything sexual and reset yourself and then work up. Good luck my friend, and I thank you for sharing. Your story is important to a lot of people.

 

So I’m gay right… are you trying to state that I have some dark disturbing fetish’s and it’s porn that’s the reason for it? I’m just trying to understand your logic.

uh oh here he is again with his novel advice. Lol

you were doing so well in posting a constructive comment until you put your opinion of this being porn inducted into the advice. Now how the hell do you know it’s porn induced? Stop putting your feeling I to the mix, it’s not helping. Your whole comment should have just been cut off before the question because then It started going out in left field again.

see now your just trying to find any way to make your belief the best way to go. Focus on helping by being objective not by forcing him into your opinion. I just get a huge kick outta you. I’m gonna start following you thread posts. I bet you appear in all the trans topics huh?

 

Wisdom. Really. Thank you for giving insight to a oft-times atrophied dialog for most men. I appreciate you.