Desensitized member after PM

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Shianz01, May 26, 2020.

  1. Shianz01

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    I am 20 and a physically active guy , a gym freak , and was also sexually well a couple of months ago but past month as i was living well and without any anxiety something as we all are in lockdown so so one night i just started MOing to P , was a moderate porn user like 3 times or 2 a week but that day as i started fapping to P i felt that my rock hard erection turned flaccid dropping me extremly afraid that whats happening with me i started stimulating it hard but still flaccid , i slwpy that night without Oing to anything but those things are still there , no spontaneous erections like earlier no arousal to real women or a very little as am depressed about m condition and loosing hope , and one thing my dick feels like less sensitive to my touch and from past few days am getting night and morning erections sometime like 80% hardness but still unable yo feel that pleasure of touching it like before and it instantly fades away as i stop stimulating or stand up i only get them with some hardness while lying down i can say that some erections are there during morning and night time but not as earlier and me member feels like shrivelled and .... And can see semen outcome during urination in morning ... I don't know what was that i am with a good girl for a long and shes supportive but still we didntd have any intimate yet but i can say that when earlier i get it up easily around her and talking to her but now feeling wierd and even porn is like less arousing to me and if am aroused i couldn't get a rock hard boner like before ..... And the feather like sensitivity is no more there on my member....... Here in lockdown am unable to reach any doctor out there and also unable to share it with my parents , its taking me to severe depression that what caused sudden erection problem i dont think its venous leakage or something as venous leakage is very rare in young cases and i wouldn't even get those some fine erections lying down .... Help me ! :'( i want my old days back ... My girl is so understanding i told her everything and shes supporting me alot .... But all i want to know that is it curable will i be like old me ever because all google shows that are surgeries and tadalafil i don't want temporary things , i do believe in nofap and on a 2 weeks abstinence from porn.... i will go further but need some support ...
     
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  2. David Angelo

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    Sounds like it could be PIED, so do a 90 day reboot. I experienced the same and abstaining from PMO worked for me. If you are not yet intimate with your gf then you have an opportunity to go hard mode for a while.
     
  3. Shianz01

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    Thankyou brother for showing me some hope , but will i be fine :( , i don't want to live like this , I'm afraid of having any organic faults ... As i never felt any problem down there but this was all sudden .....
     
  4. David Angelo

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    My reboot worked and I recovered quickly but my mistake was I eventually started regular PMO again and the problem returned.
     
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  5. Shianz01

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    So you are on your another nofap streak?
    Any changes you have seen ? Things are improving or not ?
     
  6. David Angelo

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    Yes, I stopped looking at P and I do not M since approximately 3 weeks ago. I only O from sex or BJ with a girl who I met 1 week ago. It works for me on many levels; emotional, moods, physical, focus, productivity, as well as repairing and resetting my member. But last time and this time I do it by stopping P and M but practicing real sex gently to see how it's going.
     
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  7. Shianz01

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    Ok brother , priorly I'll go for a 90 days reboot , hope for healing with passing time.. . May i know what caused me a lack of sensation over there .... ?
     
  8. David Angelo

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    I don't know what caused a lack of sensitivity for you but if you've been PMOing for a while and not had much real sex then you have to experiment with no PMO for a while and observe yourself while working on your relationship, kissing, etc. Are you attracted to your gf?
     
  9. Shianz01

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    Yes , am extremely attractedvto her ... Thats why am really depressed about my future :'( . We are in a long relationship but as this thing happened , i lost all my confidence , my desires , nothing makes me happy now, and thinking about sex is not that much arousing to me now as i was highly stimulated earlier .am broken now and dont know what to do.
     
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    The good news is you are still young, be patient and continue to work on yourself. Continue to stay active by working out. Long runs help with mood. I am no expert and I just recently started my NoPMO streak as well. I was 60 pmo free before and after about 40 days you kind of notice a mental clarity and a sense of attraction for women in real life.
     
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  12. Shianz01

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    Tha
    Thankyou so much for your response , am holding up and still waiting to gain some improvement ..
     

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