If you understand that desire is an endless process ,it is a game you can play joyfully Sadguru . I like this quote ! To me desire is energy withholding your man seed is power because more than not it leaves you with a huge surplus of energy we can make use of it how you see fit . It's like edging but instead doing something that can harm you your edging with life and using the natural driving force of sex as fuel to get you to we're you want to be . Semen retention is jet fuel .