I think what did make us react the most was Snazzy's statement that he didn't find Tryin4Love attractive. You DON'T say that. Especially when you know the lady has outstanding self-esteem issues. It is destructive. Settling for Snazzy not, what is it? Is Snazzy the last man on the planet? I agree with Veritech...maybe is crying is fake and empty. Maybe its not. We're not therapists. I just wish Trying4Love the best. A good, honest and safe relationship with a man, that will make her feel supported and desired. Whether that will come from Snazzy or not is unknown to me. And yes i_wanna_get_better1 us PMO'ers have been jerks too.