I had a wet dream last night... I know I haven’t relapsed in terms of P and M but would you say that I failed NNN
I haven't had a wet dream in decades, but I do understand the feeling. Sometimes I'll wake up partially, with an immediate urge, and even if I don't give in, I'll wonder later if I am guilty. You are not culpable for anything you don't deliberately, consciously, and actively choose.